"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well I have been DJ'ing for about a year now , but theres one thing I find really hard to do... I can easily approach girls I don't know from other places and stuff, but I find it hard to approch the girls I do know and the girls who go to my school.

For some reason I think will they think it's weird that all the sudden I am flirting with with them using my DJ'ing skills.

Does anyone know any technique and ways to get rid of that weird voice that comes to me when I am about to do it or doing it ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i'd just say f*ck it and do it
 
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Annything from someone with usefull advice?
 
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Simply just pretend you have no idea who they are. You're a new man. They don't know you. They know the old shy you. Not the new you. Theyre NEW meat.
 
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