"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mental Masturbation: EMBARRASSING?

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JediMasterdebaiter

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After reading numerous posts on here I thought of a few very thought provoking questions...



Would you be embarrassed if the girl(s) of your DJ dreams found out about this site, read what you wrote, knew it was you, and saw the way most of you carry on like little effeminate talk show guests about them??? Would you be a MAN in their eyes, or would they still want you as THEIR man?? Think about that.

Discuss.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gonnamakeit

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No, your right I have thought of it a bit I think I have outgrown this site. I can help myself from here on out.
 
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prairiedog24

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I don't see the issue. You're either here to learn or to teach. Both are worthy causes.
 
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piranha45

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I've got no shame, all 600-something posts on this site.

You can't keep the girl of your dreams exclusive to you, anyway, if you can't retain the fundamental power of walking away from her.

ANYTHING you find enjoyable can be construed to be "mental masturbation". So the term and your argument are moot.
 
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horaholic

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I have nothing to be ashamed of. Of course, part of the reason why is that I dont come on here as a know it all, and condescend everyone, so I can think I'm cool in my own head. But hey, thats just me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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