"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ladies have been wearing pant suits for a while now. And many professional women wear them as its almost a required staple of a conservative business wardrobe.

That being said, what is menswear or womens wear changes through time and culture. Look at skinny jeans for example. Or the fact that male nobility used to wear tights and high heels. Or how men in Scotland wear kilts. American and European men wore those silly wigs once upon a time. And if you dare insulted a man of nobility by calling him a woman, then you sealed your own death.

It is what it is. Sh!t dont phase me. What we consider womens and mens clothes is dependent on the culture we were raised in.
 
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gaylan anyone?
 
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Watawata said:
gaylan anyone?
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Instead of being a loser troll, how about responding directly to my post if you have a problem with it. Until then, keep your mouth shut.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jaylan said:
Ladies have been wearing pant suits for a while now. And many professional women wear them as its almost a required staple of a conservative business wardrobe.

Exactly. Plus, she's wearing a suit designed for women. It's not like she has cuff links, a tie, and a double-breasted jacket lol.


That being said, what is menswear or womens wear changes through time and culture. Look at skinny jeans for example. Or the fact that male nobility used to wear tights and high heels. Or how men in Scotland wear kilts. American and European men wore those silly wigs once upon a time. And if you dare insulted a man of nobility by calling him a woman, then you sealed your own death.

While I'm not a fan of skinny jeans, I agree with everything else above.

It is what it is. Sh!t dont phase me. What we consider womens and mens clothes is dependent on the culture we were raised in.
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I work with women who wear (women's style) pant suits or jackets frequently. I never thought twice about it.
 
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