"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Menswear isn't just for dudes anymore

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jaylan

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Ladies have been wearing pant suits for a while now. And many professional women wear them as its almost a required staple of a conservative business wardrobe.

That being said, what is menswear or womens wear changes through time and culture. Look at skinny jeans for example. Or the fact that male nobility used to wear tights and high heels. Or how men in Scotland wear kilts. American and European men wore those silly wigs once upon a time. And if you dare insulted a man of nobility by calling him a woman, then you sealed your own death.

It is what it is. Sh!t dont phase me. What we consider womens and mens clothes is dependent on the culture we were raised in.
 

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gaylan anyone?
 

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Watawata said:
gaylan anyone?
Instead of being a loser troll, how about responding directly to my post if you have a problem with it. Until then, keep your mouth shut.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jaylan said:
Ladies have been wearing pant suits for a while now. And many professional women wear them as its almost a required staple of a conservative business wardrobe.

Exactly. Plus, she's wearing a suit designed for women. It's not like she has cuff links, a tie, and a double-breasted jacket lol.


That being said, what is menswear or womens wear changes through time and culture. Look at skinny jeans for example. Or the fact that male nobility used to wear tights and high heels. Or how men in Scotland wear kilts. American and European men wore those silly wigs once upon a time. And if you dare insulted a man of nobility by calling him a woman, then you sealed your own death.

While I'm not a fan of skinny jeans, I agree with everything else above.

It is what it is. Sh!t dont phase me. What we consider womens and mens clothes is dependent on the culture we were raised in.
I work with women who wear (women's style) pant suits or jackets frequently. I never thought twice about it.
 
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