"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Men's friendships with women 'driven by sexual attraction'
- Thread starter SamTheHobit
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Who Dares Win
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There is nothing to discuss about, frienship with men and women does not exists.
No man wants to be friend with a girl he doesnt find attractive while no woman wants to be friend with a man from which she cannot benefit in some way (wheter is being offered drinks, invited to parties, job connection or ego boost).
The same concept of friendzone is clear enough as well.
1)guy wants girl but she see him "as a friend", meaning she doesnt find him phisycally attractive enough for anything intimate yet he still hopes.
2)girl wants guy but he see her "as a friend" meaning she is good looking enough to be a fvck buddy but not hot enough to be a girlfriend.
These are the two cases of friendship between the sexes.
Do you have some female friends which you dont find attractive?
Anyway the funny thing is this:
Men like women who act dumb, being dumb not try hard or sh1t testsing them or challenge them for the sake of it
Men have twice as many partners of any girl which divided by 10 her count and dont count bl0w jobs at clubs
Women more moral than men, if being leftist means "moral"
Men want cuddles but women prefer sex, when they both passed 50yrs and she is fat enough to be a pillow
No man wants to be friend with a girl he doesnt find attractive while no woman wants to be friend with a man from which she cannot benefit in some way (wheter is being offered drinks, invited to parties, job connection or ego boost).
The same concept of friendzone is clear enough as well.
1)guy wants girl but she see him "as a friend", meaning she doesnt find him phisycally attractive enough for anything intimate yet he still hopes.
2)girl wants guy but he see her "as a friend" meaning she is good looking enough to be a fvck buddy but not hot enough to be a girlfriend.
These are the two cases of friendship between the sexes.
Do you have some female friends which you dont find attractive?
Anyway the funny thing is this:
:crackup:
Men like women who act dumb, being dumb not try hard or sh1t testsing them or challenge them for the sake of it
Men have twice as many partners of any girl which divided by 10 her count and dont count bl0w jobs at clubs
Women more moral than men, if being leftist means "moral"
Men want cuddles but women prefer sex, when they both passed 50yrs and she is fat enough to be a pillow
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there is a saying in spanish that goes : "For a man, having a female friend is like having a chicken as a pet. Sooner or later, he will start thinking about eating it."
You may have attractive ones as friends for social proof and requires some control.
You may have attractive ones as friends for social proof and requires some control.
BRIFFAULT’S LAW:
The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.
Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit
A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male.
The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.
Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit
A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male.
Uncharted
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If I am really a friend with a girl, it's because:
1. I am not interested in fvcking her.
2. I cannot fvck her due to some pre-existing condition (ie. she is dating my boy, we work together, etc)
I don't have any friends that do not fall into these two categories.
1. I am not interested in fvcking her.
2. I cannot fvck her due to some pre-existing condition (ie. she is dating my boy, we work together, etc)
I don't have any friends that do not fall into these two categories.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Your GF has a bestie that's a dude? Invoke the golden rule! It's the only fair way around this. The following is a quote from another thread.
I'll always throw the golden rule down whenever things start getting serious. First naughty behavior, and i'll have a little chat with her. I'll ask her what kind of relationship she wants. I'll tell her that it's her choice, she can have an open relationship or hang out with her ex if she wants to either way I don't care. All i'm worried about is that things are fair. If she wants to hangout with dudes, I can hangout with girls maybe my ex too. This is a great convo to have at the beginning of a relationship, I have never had bad results with this.
It says that you have female friends you want to hang with.
It shows her you are not so much in her pocket by wanting exclusivity with her.
It shows her you are more in control of your emotions than she thinks by being so dismissive of monogamy or whatever.
It's a neg because you just told her that you really don't care what she does as long as you can do it too.
It really sets you aside from all the insecure little kids she has been dating in the past. Quite honestly I do care, but the purpose of the convo is to make her care too. It's too easy for a girl to be offered something free from some dude think it's innocent enough and take it. But when you put yourself in the scenario by telling her that you plan on buying girls lunches or planning something to do with your ex things change. And she has to understand that the door swings both ways, and it may swing a little wider for you because after all you are the one with the bread to spend on dinners and such.
It also changes the nature of her deception, she's not keeping a secret because you are so irrational and insecure for your own good, or because she knows it's just an innocent thing between friends. You have a deal that is based on fairness, almost a relationship oath and if she breaks it she is being dishonest with your relationship. There are no excuses now of just friends or any other BS she may use to justify her actions.
If she can do it, I can do it too.
I'll always throw the golden rule down whenever things start getting serious. First naughty behavior, and i'll have a little chat with her. I'll ask her what kind of relationship she wants. I'll tell her that it's her choice, she can have an open relationship or hang out with her ex if she wants to either way I don't care. All i'm worried about is that things are fair. If she wants to hangout with dudes, I can hangout with girls maybe my ex too. This is a great convo to have at the beginning of a relationship, I have never had bad results with this.
It says that you have female friends you want to hang with.
It shows her you are not so much in her pocket by wanting exclusivity with her.
It shows her you are more in control of your emotions than she thinks by being so dismissive of monogamy or whatever.
It's a neg because you just told her that you really don't care what she does as long as you can do it too.
It really sets you aside from all the insecure little kids she has been dating in the past. Quite honestly I do care, but the purpose of the convo is to make her care too. It's too easy for a girl to be offered something free from some dude think it's innocent enough and take it. But when you put yourself in the scenario by telling her that you plan on buying girls lunches or planning something to do with your ex things change. And she has to understand that the door swings both ways, and it may swing a little wider for you because after all you are the one with the bread to spend on dinners and such.
It also changes the nature of her deception, she's not keeping a secret because you are so irrational and insecure for your own good, or because she knows it's just an innocent thing between friends. You have a deal that is based on fairness, almost a relationship oath and if she breaks it she is being dishonest with your relationship. There are no excuses now of just friends or any other BS she may use to justify her actions.
If she can do it, I can do it too.
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Never be just friends with a woman. I don't accept friendship from women.
SamTheHobit
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Fvck yeah!nismo-4 said:
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"Men's relationships with their female friends may be fuelled by an undercurrent of sexual attraction regardless of whether they are single"
Nooo sh!t..
Nooo sh!t..
This seems extremely obvious (to me). Whether the guy is outwardly displaying it or if he has hidden it in his subconscious, or if it's so buried in his subconscious that he is considered "gay", the fact remains that all guys have the masculine drive. It is always there whether the guy is comfortable with it or not. Men and women cannot be friends if they are both perfectly honest with each other. They can be "dates" or "casual dates", but not friends in the sense that two guys can be or two girls can be. The sexual undercurrent is ALWAYS present.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.