"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Men who list their relationship status as single are trash?

warrior1

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i am particularly talking about guys who lists themselves as single on facebook.

Some one said that single women are not attracted to taken men because they dont like being a homewrecker. As a guy, I feel that if a male is single, it is because he is trash or is a loser or simply not cool. Some people said that single men who look cute and attractive but are single for a long period of time are usually trash which is why they are single.

Do most women feel that cute or attractive looking guys who are single for a long time always trash?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DismantleRepair

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Men who list their relationship status as single are most likely single, and there's the end of it.

Some one said that single women are not attracted to taken men because they dont like being a homewrecker.
Which parallel universe is this?
 

warrior1

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Well most women said that they are not into taken men because they dont want to be a homwrecker. They prefer single men and taken men are OFF LIMITS to them. So their lying here?
 

young_gun

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I think you're pulling theories out of your @ss.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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warrior1

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Nope these are actual responses from another forum. Most people said it. I didnt agree with it at all.
 

The Inside Man

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Just don't list anything and leave the mystery. Notice how most hot girls facebook is married or engaged to one of their girlfriends, or they will show the relationship with their boyfriend.
 

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warrior1 said:
Well most women said that they are not into taken men because they dont want to be a homwrecker. They prefer single men and taken men are OFF LIMITS to them. So their lying here?
and most pedophiles would probably say they aren't into kids if you asked them :eek: :rockon:
 

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Guys listed as "single" may or may not actually be single. Married/LTR guys will try to hook up with single chicks.

Most women, who have an ounce of morals, will not date married men. There are women who like the idea of being a "Mistress".

As for gus that have been single for a long time...define long time. If a 25 year old guy hasn't had a relationship for a year, I assume he's just in a slump. If a 45 year old man hasn't had a relationship in 10 years, I assume there is a very valid reason for it...like he's psychotic, has emotional issues, or is socially inept.

(As for the married guys who give you the heart-breaking story of how they are caught up in a sexless marriage...Dude! Your wife won't sleep with you, why should I? Divorce her frigid ass and then come talk to me!)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lord Shinra

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I list mine as in an open relationship. With some proof to back it up.

It sounds better than "Manhor"
 

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I was single for 2 years, but I didn't see any need to have a girlfriend because I was just fine without one. Does that make me trash? No.
 

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warrior, if you wanna get your game better, stay off the internet and go out

seduction sites are full of bullsh!t that people with no experience can't filter out
 

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iqqi said:
Why is being single bad?

I am serious, please answer this question. Then I can diagnose your insecurity.

Well there's nothing wrong with a guy being single, but for a women being single it usually means 1. she's undesirable and can't get what she wants, or 2. as LMS would say is a hor!!!!, or 3. a rare prude and revert back to 1.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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iqqi

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ketostix said:
Well there's nothing wrong with a guy being single, but for a women being single it usually means 1. she's undesirable and can't get what she wants, or 2. as LMS would say is a hor!!!!, or 3. a rare prude and revert back to 1.
Or maybe she is single for the same reason anyone is single. :rolleyes:

But then again... that would discount the theory that all women are "branch swingers".
 
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