"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Men who list their relationship status as single are trash?

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i am particularly talking about guys who lists themselves as single on facebook.

Some one said that single women are not attracted to taken men because they dont like being a homewrecker. As a guy, I feel that if a male is single, it is because he is trash or is a loser or simply not cool. Some people said that single men who look cute and attractive but are single for a long period of time are usually trash which is why they are single.

Do most women feel that cute or attractive looking guys who are single for a long time always trash?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Men who list their relationship status as single are most likely single, and there's the end of it.

Some one said that single women are not attracted to taken men because they dont like being a homewrecker.
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Which parallel universe is this?
 
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Well most women said that they are not into taken men because they dont want to be a homwrecker. They prefer single men and taken men are OFF LIMITS to them. So their lying here?
 
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I think you're pulling theories out of your @ss.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nope these are actual responses from another forum. Most people said it. I didnt agree with it at all.
 
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Just don't list anything and leave the mystery. Notice how most hot girls facebook is married or engaged to one of their girlfriends, or they will show the relationship with their boyfriend.
 
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warrior1 said:
Well most women said that they are not into taken men because they dont want to be a homwrecker. They prefer single men and taken men are OFF LIMITS to them. So their lying here?
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and most pedophiles would probably say they aren't into kids if you asked them :eek: :rockon:
 
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Guys listed as "single" may or may not actually be single. Married/LTR guys will try to hook up with single chicks.

Most women, who have an ounce of morals, will not date married men. There are women who like the idea of being a "Mistress".

As for gus that have been single for a long time...define long time. If a 25 year old guy hasn't had a relationship for a year, I assume he's just in a slump. If a 45 year old man hasn't had a relationship in 10 years, I assume there is a very valid reason for it...like he's psychotic, has emotional issues, or is socially inept.

(As for the married guys who give you the heart-breaking story of how they are caught up in a sexless marriage...Dude! Your wife won't sleep with you, why should I? Divorce her frigid ass and then come talk to me!)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I list mine as in an open relationship. With some proof to back it up.

It sounds better than "Manhor"
 
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I was single for 2 years, but I didn't see any need to have a girlfriend because I was just fine without one. Does that make me trash? No.
 
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warrior, if you wanna get your game better, stay off the internet and go out

seduction sites are full of bullsh!t that people with no experience can't filter out
 
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iqqi said:
Why is being single bad?

I am serious, please answer this question. Then I can diagnose your insecurity.
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Well there's nothing wrong with a guy being single, but for a women being single it usually means 1. she's undesirable and can't get what she wants, or 2. as LMS would say is a hor!!!!, or 3. a rare prude and revert back to 1.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ketostix said:
Well there's nothing wrong with a guy being single, but for a women being single it usually means 1. she's undesirable and can't get what she wants, or 2. as LMS would say is a hor!!!!, or 3. a rare prude and revert back to 1.
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Or maybe she is single for the same reason anyone is single. :rolleyes:

But then again... that would discount the theory that all women are "branch swingers".
 
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