"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
men who hit women?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Metro3pilot
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I guess that's it in a nutshell and they seek each other out ....
I think and I'm not a psychologist ..... abuse is pretty much a learned thing ..
most guys that hit women have been doing it for years, probably watched another man do it and learned it must be ok
the same with the abused women, the smart and very small minority get out at the first sign of abuse from a man ....... the rest of them, find one abusive relationship after another.
I mean think about it, have your last 15 girlfriends been the same girl maybe with different hair color and names ...but basicly the same girl ? mine sure have so I know it's not just luck that I pick all the chicks who don't want relationships ...I used to be quite the Captain Sav a ho
certain things in other people capture our attention for some it's blonde hair for others it's an abusive personality.
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Competitive violence in the home has no place. Your home is not a UFC ring. However, some people feel that corporal punishment has a place in disciplining a woman. However that sort of thing should be done without malice or anger.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=4677738144658096566&q=smack+my+*****+up&total=1426&start=0&num=10&so=0&type=search&plindex=0
Kalel21
Don Juan
http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm
got to love the fematrix.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i think that all domestic fights should feature this song playing loudly in the home while the fight is going on.Francisco d'Anconia said:
you know what I really bites?
The fact you don’t see many websites dedicated to women who want to improve:
There standing has a GF, Wife, mother, lover or great women a man desires.
Yeh there are remnants of it, but is there a female version of the DJ forum, or even the bible?
No.
So whilst we endeavour to be the 'best' we can be it is pleasing to know, women are not in the slightest putting the same effort in at all.
Still I guess all this self actualization makes us more empowered to control the female species, instead of allowing them to control 'us', but still it would be refreshing to see women finally accepting it takes 'two' to tango and putting in as much effort has men need to do, to make the joining of the species work, so far I see towers built by men with women skipping around them dressed in material worth, dressed up in some materialistic ideal hoping to get in, or to see if the man will open to door to allow her entrance into his tower or castle of his mind, i.e. all this seduction learning to become 'the man a women would love to be with' we or I see mainly women not sharing the same ideal, merely stepping on board when they see what is on offer, worth latching onto.
Edit, i am going to contridict myself here.
Women actually spend there lives, learning how to manipulate, or win men over, look at play ground ideals, with women talking about boys, make-up and learning how to fabiricate an illusion, the problem then lies imo when a system is designed to reward 'poor' behaviour for women whilst at the same time accusing men of being the ones responisble for the poor behaviour, but when all is said and done it is mens fault for allowing the sorry state of affairs to continue or happen in the first place.
Men would abuse the system just has much if they could, the system is at fault! Has for abuse? mental or physical, i know the version is far from the truth and represents what social ideals want you to believe, society is at fault for being the biased bullcra8p it is sadly, it a testiment to how messed up things are when it takes forums like this to 'father' boys back into 'man hood' and show the truth is not has it appears to be.
Abuse of the sexies happens! The problem, men are painted out to be the abusers with women the victims as the general norm, but better not speak out about it, you may be labled a potential abuser, lol.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She really pushed me to the very last point (& i mean really above my limit...) and i gave her a.... ONE... TIGHT... SLAP.... To shut her mouth. She punched me back in the eye. Swollen eye for 2 days.