Men, Where Have You Gone? Please Come Back.

[BaronOfHair]

So one might as well ask women to tune down their inflated egos and imagined value while working on being good wifes and girlfriends.

We can ask them to do what you describe, same way The Woke Left prioritizes telling CIS males with pasty complexions to stop being racist/misogynistic/homophobic/transphobic, etc etc above all else. Come hell or high water though, both Jenny from around the way and Bubba who runs the neighborhood food truck down in Shreveport/deals meth on the side, are both going to think and behave in whatever way they see fit

At what point are non-whites/gays/women/trannies and straight men alike going to spend LESS time fretting over our "enemies" refusing to change, and devote 98% of our energies towards being the best versions of ourselves? Dunno about the rest of the planet, but we here in The Anglosphere have been mistaking the former strategy as "empowerment" for the past decade now(Taking the piss out of our "enemies", when they refuse to change in order to suit us), and the benefits yielded have been comparable to Megan Fox's career trajectory, once she refused to actually get naked on camera

 

[Clockwerk50]

I would like to say how much I hate the fact, and I put myself at the forefront of this category of men, that it is really complicated to find someone my age, in my 30s, who is an example to follow.

I am inspired by men who are 60 or 70 today.
I can't find peers who I can get along with and do something with

What does this have to do with the post?

 

[SW15]

This article is a reality for a 54 year old woman who is divorced and has had children from a previous marriage. Given her age, there's a good chance her children are 18+. If her children are under 18, prospective dates aren't going to be excited about dealing with a teenager (and possibly a future college student) in a longer term relationship setting. Additionally, at 54, fewer men are going to consider her a short term sex option. Most 55+ men aren't looking for short term sex with a 54-55 year old woman. 55+ men do desire more pair bonding.

A 54 year old woman with only adult children isn't very enticing for a lot of 55+ men. A 54 year old woman with adult children likely has children between 18-27 years old. 18-27 year old adult children are often a nuisance. If they are 18-22 and attend college, they will likely be home during college breaks. If they are 22-27 years old, they might need to live at home after college due the weak labor market for newer college graduates. Since the dot com bust of the early 2000s, it's been very common in the USA for 20 somethings and even early 30 something adult children to live at home for extended periods of time. This has been something that both Millennials and Gen Z have experienced as younger adults during the last 20-25 years.

A 55+ man might be dealing with his own adult children having the sorts of issues I've described. Some of these older men are thirsty enough to complicate their lives for sex with aging vagina but some will walk away from the option of having sex with an aging vagina.

A 24 year old woman is not going to write this article about men disappearing. She has too many options. Even a 34 year old woman in a big city is less likely to write the same article.

 

[MatureDJ]

You hit the nail on the head. I was going to post something similar, but you said it more clearly and concisely than I could have.

The truth is, the men who are “checking out” were never seen as valuable enough for women to seek commitment from in the first place; they were invisible then, and they still are. “Checking out” is just a coping mechanism.

It's OVER for CheckedOutCels.

 

[LTG71]

It’s over for these post 50, menopausal WhereDidAllTheChadsGoCels. She can cry over boxed wine with Paulina Porizkova and reminisce about the good ole days when they didn’t know what scarcity was.

 

[SW15]

She can cry over boxed wine with Paulina Porizkova and reminisce about the good ole days when they didn’t know what scarcity was.

Rachel Drucker (article writer) will find a boyfriend, just like Paulina Porizkova did after making a big fuss about post menopausal dating life.

Age 57 harridan laments that her ex-husband found girlfriend within 1 month, while she has gone on nearly 100 dates with no boyfriend

https://medium.com/heart-affairs/i-keep-getting-stung-by-bumble-b409a7907efe My ex-husband started dating someone within a month of our divorce. One month. The man who was incapable of having an intimate relationship with me found someone in a month. And here I sit alone after almost five...

www.sosuave.net

Why Paulina Porizkova Feels Like She's 'Just Discovered Love' at 59: 'I Was Stupid for a Long Time'

Paulina Porizkova is opening up about her new relationship with writer Jeff Greenstein and becoming a brand-new ambassador for Estée Lauder.

people.com

Paulina Porizkova dating Will & Grace writer Jeff Greenstein

Sports Illustrated Swimsuit alum Paulina first announced that she was dating someone new last week - and now, she has confirmed that her latest love interest is the successful TV writer.

www.dailymail.co.uk

After a few rough years in dating, Porizkova settled into a relationship with a beta looking man. After complaining about her dating app results on Hinge in 2021 (see first link), she ended up meeting a boyfriend on Raya (a different dating app) in 2023. Her boyfriend, Jeff Greenstein, was the senior writer on the TV show "Will & Grace" for much of its 1998-2006 airing period. Older women who are well past their prime will usually find a thirsty older beta to bail them out. They might make a stink online during the process but things often seem to work out for them.

Male thirst is unreal.

 

[BaronOfHair]

That article is incentive for us to fire back with sentiments along the lines of those articulated by Dante Moore back in '08

, before we adopted The Woke Left's fondness for communicating exclusively in jargon, and attributing our lot in life almost exclusively to someone else's sins

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Ol' Rach has made Zero Hedge. 18,000 views and counting on the first day of publishing.

Feminists Are Begging For Men To Come Back But Still Blame Them For Everything<!-- --> | ZeroHedge

ZeroHedge - On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero

www.zerohedge.com

 

[BaronOfHair]

Ol' Rach has made Zero Hedge. 18,000 views and counting on the first day of publishing.

Feminists Are Begging For Men To Come Back But Still Blame Them For Everything<!-- --> | ZeroHedge

ZeroHedge - On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero

www.zerohedge.com

As we've already observed https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...e-please-come-back.284304/page-2#post-3162743 , men likely HAVEN'T stopped noticing her... The ones she wants are just pursuing women decades her junior, as she turns down guys who'd perfectly suitable SOs

 

[BillyPilgrim]

As we've already observed https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...e-please-come-back.284304/page-2#post-3162743 , men likely HAVEN'T stopped noticing her... The ones she wants are just pursuing women decades her junior, as she turns down guys who'd perfectly suitable SOs

“We knew what worked. We knew how to frame a face, a gesture, a moment of implication — just enough to ignite fantasy and open a wallet. I came to understand, in exact terms, what cues tempt the average 18-to-36-year-old cis heterosexual man. What drew him in. What kept him coming back. It wasn’t intimacy. It wasn’t mutuality. It was access to simulation — clean, fast and frictionless…”

“…That dynamic has quietly collapsed. We have moved into an era where many men no longer seek women to impress other men or to connect across difference. They perform elsewhere. Alone. They’ve filtered us out.”

What's unwritten here, and speaks to your post, is that she's wanting the same men she's gotten in the past (or better, to be honest) while growing older and less agreeable.

 

[BaronOfHair]

What's unwritten here, and speaks to your post, is that she's wanting the same men she's gotten in the past (or better, to be honest) while growing older and less agreeable.

She's like the rest of us human beings, in other words... Not predisposed to inquiring whether or not our current desires are especially practical, given the circumstances

 

[BillyPilgrim]

She's like the rest of us human beings, in other words... Not predisposed to inquiring whether or not our current desires are especially practical, given the circumstances

I learned at 4 not to touch the hot stove even though I really wanted to. Don't know about you Baron.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I learned at 4 not to touch the hot stove even though I really wanted to. Don't know about you Baron.

Never had the desire to do so, after watching my mother press my brother's face to said hot stove, then hold it there for awhile. His screams of agony, echoing through the halls of the fleabag apartment complex we were residing in at the time, diminished any enthusiasm I might've had to give that particular adventure a whirl