"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Men. What happened??!

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Media happened....
Women controlling what is popular in today's society

The real man with tatered blue jeans from a long hard days work is frowned upon by today's standards. If you are a money slinging glamour boy Justin Bieber you get more ass

Today's world is misguided Hard work is for suckers, Fast money and rich pretty boy that's what we want.
 

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women haze said:
Media happened....
Women controlling what is popular in today's society

The real man with tatered blue jeans from a long hard days work is frowned upon by today's standards. If you are a money slinging glamour boy Justin Bieber you get more ass

Today's world is misguided Hard work is for suckers, Fast money and rich pretty boy that's what we want.
i REALLY need new clothes
 

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faggots run media...they want images of their toyboys for the world to see.

Tom Cruise was a male prostitute before he got his first acting break.

Ed Limato, Geffen, the most powerful people in media are gay...is it any surprise that men are in nut hugging jeans.
 

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Burroughs said:
faggots run media...they want images of their toyboys for the world to see.

Tom Cruise was a male prostitute before he got his first acting break.

Ed Limato, Geffen, the most powerful people in media are gay...is it any surprise that men are in nut hugging jeans.
da fuk

are you high man
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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women haze said:
Media happened....
Women controlling what is popular in today's society

The real man with tatered blue jeans from a long hard days work is frowned upon by today's standards. If you are a money slinging glamour boy Justin Bieber you get more ass

Today's world is misguided Hard work is for suckers, Fast money and rich pretty boy that's what we want.
Too many people knock Justin Bieber for the wrong reasons. He's a teen idol aimed at young teenage girls....No different from Donny Osmond or David Cassidy 40 years ago (Damn I must be getting old !!!).....Now if my son were to start turning EMO, I would be concerned, but I don't think Bieber represents a threat in regards to being a benchmark for how guys should look or act. He (Beiber) is a product manufactured to be cute and lovable for pubesant girls.
 

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