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Female SMV: Looks, youth, fertility

Just watched a great red pill video about the wall claiming men are actually the prizes in relationships because we bring true and lasting VALUE to the table. Women bring fleeting VALUE.

Its why desperate guys and PUA's look stupid to women. Your VALUE will always speak for itself if you let it. Women try to even the playing field. That's why they market themselves as the prize. Its really the opposite.

 

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Men dont spend hundreds of dollars and hours of their time trying to cover up their natural looks with makeup and foundation tricks...
 

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Men dont spend hundreds of dollars and hours of their time trying to cover up their natural looks with makeup and foundation tricks...
At its best, makeup enhances a woman's looks, rather than cover them up. The fact that women use makeup has never bothered me. It's not hard to figure out why they do. Females derive a large part of their value on their looks, so it's to their benefit to make themselves look as good as they can. I prefer a natural look myself, not a heavy made up look.

Similarly, men don't derive so much of their value from looks. And their physical attractiveness is more from dominance traits, like height and muscles.
 

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What about highly intelligent women that enrich your life, have great jobs and have their own money ( not necessarily more than you)?

What if we don’t just want airhead bimbos because we ourself operate at a higher echelon that we also look for in an ltr?
 

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What about highly intelligent women that enrich your life, have great jobs and have their own money ( not necessarily more than you)?

What if we don’t just want airhead bimbos because we ourself operate at a higher echelon that we also look for in an ltr?
You forgot to add googlooking to your offer, an ugly fat woman can be as intelligent as einstein or be as rich as bill gates but if you dont get an erection...well you know.

Anyway as they told you, their look fades away with their youth and there is not a female version of roids to remove her wrinkles.
 

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At its best, makeup enhances a woman's looks, rather than cover them up. The fact that women use makeup has never bothered me. It's not hard to figure out why they do. Females derive a large part of their value on their looks, so it's to their benefit to make themselves look as good as they can. I prefer a natural look myself, not a heavy made up look.

Similarly, men don't derive so much of their value from looks. And their physical attractiveness is more from dominance traits, like height and muscles.
Seriously? Have you ever seen some of these chicks faces withbout makeup on? Some.of these chicks have blemishes and acne all over the place, but you'll never see that with makeup on...
 

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Here we go again...

Why do rich guys get left all the time for losers?

Why does media portray that a woman should follow her heart?

Why do the most popular romances revolve around a woman leaving a rich guy with looks, money, and status for the guy with a zest for life?

You want women? Hit her heart and hit it hard. Not by being a sappy pathetic beta, but by being a superior man

You are beginning to sound like tenacity, talking about money...
 

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I hate rich men. I think that is why I have always been attracted to the idea of fvcking their daughters. My first girlfriend's dad owned banks and was a multi-millionaire many times over. He would make fun of me for being poor. I'd wait until he fell asleep, take his daughter into the garage, and fvck her on the hood of his Porsche......because there are some things money can't buy.
 
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Male SMV: Looks, MONEY, status

Female SMV: Looks, youth, fertility

Just watched a great red pill video about the wall claiming men are actually the prizes in relationships because we bring true and lasting VALUE to the table. Women bring fleeting VALUE.

Its why desperate guys and PUA's look stupid to women. Your VALUE will always speak for itself if you let it. Women try to even the playing field. That's why they market themselves as the prize. Its really the opposite.

Do girls you date benefit from your money and status? Do you take them out to fancy dinners, buy them nice things? Does you status open doors for them?

If this is what you see as true and lasting value that men bring to the table, then it's only 'true and lasting' value to the woman for as long as she is benefiting from it.

I'm not saying that there is no value in looks money and status but it's not always sustainable ( men lose looks too at some point), it's not always reliable (rich men get dumped all the time) and its fragile (status can be lost in an instant due to many factors outside of our control).

So what else do you think could true and lasting value? Why not someone's character? How they treat others? What about what's inside the person and not just surface stuff?
 

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So what else do you think could true and lasting value? Why not someone's character? How they treat others? What about what's inside the person and not just surface stuff?
Exactly. The girl I am seeing now makes me laugh my ass off. Bringing laughter to my day is bringing value to my life. If a girl alone can make me laugh my ass off day in and day out (provided I find her sexually attractive), she will go a lot farther in my books than any model who's under 25 and has the ability to reproduce. I value character over looks. Looks obviously matter for initial attraction, but character (character as I subjectively prefer it) ranks higher on the value hierarchy than looks, especially long-term.

If all you value in a girl is "looks, youth, and fertility" you'll be disappointed, because as OP said, they are fleeting. Looks will get a woman in the door with me. But she's got to bring more to the table than winning the genetic lottery in the looks department. Superficial people value superficial things and thus attract superficial people.

And if you think no woman out there values character it's probably because you got none. Water seeks its own level.
 

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Seriously? Have you ever seen some of these chicks faces withbout makeup on? Some.of these chicks have blemishes and acne all over the place, but you'll never see that with makeup on...
Guy here seem obsessed about makeup, but it's never bothered me. If a girl uses makeup heavily, that's going to clog those pores and cause the acne you're talking about. Again, I don't like a heavy madeup look, I prefer a more natural look. A little makeup is fine though. I like the "smoky eyes" look, for example.

There's a thread in the Anything Else forum, it has a video with porn stars with and without makeup. Here it is:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-to-stop-masturbating-to-p0rn.245980/#post-2506899

Now I can only speak for myself, but to me the girls that I find attractive, I find them attractive with or without their makeup. If I don't find the girl attractive, I still don't find her attractive with the makeup, usually because she trowels it on to cover up all that ugly.

Like I said, guys here seem obsessed over makeup. I really don't get it, what is the point? Are they trying to say that women aren't really attractive? Because that is BS. Makeup doesn't change their bodies any, and we love them. Besides, men shave and trim their facial hair to look their best. It's not like we just roll out of bed as is and present ourselves to the world.
 
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Exactly. The girl I am seeing now makes me laugh my ass off. Bringing laughter to my day is bringing value to my life. If a girl alone can make me laugh my ass off day in and day out (provided I find her sexually attractive), she will go a lot farther in my books than any model who's under 25 and has the ability to reproduce. I value character over looks. Looks obviously matter for initial attraction, but character (character as I subjectively prefer it) ranks higher on the value hierarchy than looks, especially long-term.

If all you value in a girl is "looks, youth, and fertility" you'll be disappointed, because as OP said, they are fleeting. Looks will get a woman in the door with me. But she's got to bring more to the table than winning the genetic lottery in the looks department. Superficial people value superficial things and thus attract superficial people.

And if you think no woman out there values character it's probably because you got none. Water seeks its own level.

All guys want hot girls, but the guy who expects more than just a pretty face/ body stands out because he sees himself as worthy enough to set the bar higher and not settle for arm candy, in my opinion. I don't know. I just find guys like that tend to be more confident and intelligent and those are attractive traits to women.
 

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Guy here seem obsessed about makeup, but it's never bothered me. If a girl uses makeup heavily, that's going to clog those pores and cause the acne you're talking about. Again, I don't like a heavy madeup look, I prefer a more natural look. A little makeup is fine though. I like the "smoky eyes" look, for example.

There's a thread in the Anything Else forum, it has a video with porn stars with and without makeup. Here it is:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/how-to-stop-masturbating-to-p0rn.245980/#post-2506899

Now I can only speak for myself, but to me the girls that I find attractive, I find them attractive with or without their makeup. If I don't find the girl attractive, I still don't find her attractive with the makeup, usually because she trowels it on to cover up all that ugly.

Like I said, guys here seem obsessed over makeup. I really don't get it, what is the point? Are they trying to say that women aren't really attractive? Because that is BS. Makeup doesn't change their bodies any, and we love them. Besides, men shave and trim their facial hair to look their best. It's not like we just roll out of bed as is and present ourselves to the world.
No we are trying to say women have the ability to raise their looks 1-2 points via makeup whereas guys have no such quick fix ability to do the same for theirs
 

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I'm reading the 2nd or 3rd thread u r posting abt money, status and good looks 2 get women.

Seems like u r in dire need 2 convince urself that this is the ONLY recourse available 2 you.

U need 2 get a new hobby. Rebrand urself, get an old used bicycle and some worn out cloths - go practice some social skills whilst cycling.

U need a change from the current circle of women u r orbiting.
 

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I'm reading the 2nd or 3rd thread u r posting abt money, status and good looks 2 get women.

Seems like u r in dire need 2 convince urself that this is the ONLY recourse available 2 you.

U need 2 get a new hobby. Rebrand urself, get an old used bicycle and some worn out cloths - go practice some social skills whilst cycling.

U need a change from the current circle of women u r orbiting.
Lmao! Get used to it. OP is a one trick pony.
 

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Do girls you date benefit from your money and status? Do you take them out to fancy dinners, buy them nice things? Does you status open doors for them?

If this is what you see as true and lasting value that men bring to the table, then it's only 'true and lasting' value to the woman for as long as she is benefiting from it.

I'm not saying that there is no value in looks money and status but it's not always sustainable ( men lose looks too at some point), it's not always reliable (rich men get dumped all the time) and its fragile (status can be lost in an instant due to many factors outside of our control).

So what else do you think could true and lasting value? Why not someone's character? How they treat others? What about what's inside the person and not just surface stuff?
No sh*t.

Hypergamy. Duh! lol

But a guy with looks, MONEY and status coupled with an attractive personality will keep women longer and easier than any other type of man. He'll have more women to choose from too.
 

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No sh*t.

Hypergamy. Duh! lol

But a guy with looks, MONEY and status coupled with an attractive personality will keep women longer and easier than any other type of man. He'll have more women to choose from too.
It's called a male unicorn

SoSuave been seeking to put man into male unicorn since 1998
 

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What about highly intelligent women that enrich your life, have great jobs and have their own money ( not necessarily more than you)?

What if we don’t just want airhead bimbos because we ourself operate at a higher echelon that we also look for in an ltr?
Yes.I happen to have an intelligent woman who has a great job,owns her own home is 10 years younger than me,is sexy as fvck,but wait she's a single mom ohh no..... OMG ! I might not be a DJ for saying that...;)
 

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Yes.I happen to have an intelligent woman who has a great job,owns her own home is 10 years younger than me,is sexy as fvck,but wait she's a single mom ohh no..... OMG ! I might not be a DJ for saying that...;)
A single mom? That's really the best you can do?

Lol.
 
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