Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Men in the gym have low sex drive.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think science would disagree with the article. Working out hitting the gym increases testosterone. Any idiot knows increases testosterone increases sex drive.
 

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I would take personal experience over science any day. I almost always have to beat one off the next day after a heavy squat day.
 

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Fake news, fake science. Getting to be a strange world out there with people twisting facts to match their own agenda.
It's only real if you "overtrain". "overtraining" is very hard to do unless you don't eat enough and get enough rest. For 98% of others, working out increases testosterone, increases endorphins and increases sex drive.

It's the way to maximize your physical mind and body, which results in your physical self being more optimized which leads to better sex.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"The study, which asked 1,100 men in the U.S how often they thought about sex – as well as what their exercise regime is – found that men reach a ‘tipping point’ in their sex lives."

I've read thousands of studies, there are many problems with this article and this claim:
- Where is the study? there was no link in the article
-They (probably) had no control group, so they can't really tell if it has anything to do with the exercise.
-Its probably not randomized, meaning, they probably picked certain people at certain area they wanted to ask.
-There might be a conflict of interest. (e.g if Mcdondals hypothetically sponsored this study)

Also, some "researchers" are trying to make controversial claims, because they are under pressure by the university.
 

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It's only real if you "overtrain". "overtraining" is very hard to do unless you don't eat enough and get enough rest. For 98% of others, working out increases testosterone, increases endorphins and increases sex drive.
Over training is quite easy to do. Unless you have an athletic trainer and practice impeccable recovery treatments, you should not be working out more than three times of week with intensity.
 

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Over training is quite easy to do. Unless you have an athletic trainer and practice impeccable recovery treatments, you should not be working out more than three times of week with intensity.
Nonsense. I train 5x a week with a bi-monthly deload and ive never overtrained in my life.

As for the article, even more nonsense. Probably comes from the same minds that bought you "women prefer the dad bod"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's as everybody said. Only if you overtrain and have no energy to do anything else . Still if you have enough sleep and good nutrition, it's impossible to get overtrained .

It's just ridiculous how all these liberals try to manipulate the world.
 

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Correlation doesn't equal causation.

I call bullsh*t because I have a friend who is a Crossfit instructor and that guy gets laid by a new woman every week. Most famous athletes train in the gym all the time and they get more ass than a toilet seat.

Its just nerds trying to emasculate guys who can kick their ass any day of the week. Working out feels good by the way. I hit the gym almost every day.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The article is full of bs.....you can see the obvious bias she has when you make memes of guys working out.

But not only that, in this day and age journalism is at its worse with biases, fact checking and underlying motives. It's so low that ALMOST ANYONE CAN WRITE AN ARTICLE/BLOG.... Anyone can write an article/blog (a lot of them are not even journalists, they're considered "freelance/independent contributors" to a site who get paid for click bait or write for free) and say some crazy nonsense that's false.... BUT if they have a following that believes it, then she's right in "her world." THAT'S SAD. A lot of mindless sheep out there with no ounce of individualism and self thought....

This is the woman who's making fun of men who are dedicated to working out? https://twitter.com/NeelamTailor

She would be the first to jump on your c@ck if she would see how you looked with your shirt off with
the work you do at the gym.

Where's the female counterpart analysis??? Oh wait, there is none....:rolleyes:

If she was a "genuine" writer she would talk about the insanity in the U.S. that now
40% OF AMERICAN WOMEN ARE NOW OBESE AND HAVE TAKEN OVER THE OBESITY EPIDEMIC COMPARED TO MEN AT 35%.....THAT'S INSANE....Yet the media and women won't talk about it.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...-40-percent-now-obese/?utm_term=.d5a85e3fafc1


Bottom line:
Everyone can write anything online these days, you just have to filter out the nonsense and have
a good laugh ;)
 
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