Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Men generally come here to grow, women come there to be manipulative gold-diggers

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exactly what you do you call goo goo talk??

there was no goo goo talk
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by penkitten
exactly what you do you call goo goo talk??

there was no goo goo talk
No sh*t.

Someone must have pissed in his corn flakes or something, my wittle snookie-wookums.

:D
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
No sh*t.

Someone must have pissed in his corn flakes or something, my wittle snookie-wookums.

:D
snookie what?
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova


Someone must have pissed in his corn flakes or something
:D
Actually, when I was cooking my steak tonight it was suppose to be medium rare but came out, closer to well done.
 

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
Actually, when I was cooking my steak tonight it was suppose to be medium rare but came out, closer to well done.
And then to top off your night, here I am telling penkitten that I love her more than all the chocolate bunnies. I think you should just call it a night and hope tomorrow works out better for you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
, here I am telling penkitten that I love her more than all the chocolate bunnies. .
i almost cant believe it ....
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
embargo
El Karate Explosionso

Hey, what was this thread about again? Oh yeah, something about the "female DJ site" thing... we needed another thread about that... good job whoever did that.
 

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pen and Gio...I'm all for you two flirting and being as lovey-dovey as you want. However, those complaining do have a point about you doing it in this section. You should at least try to save it for anything else. Ya know?
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
pen and Gio...I'm all for you two flirting and being as lovey-dovey as you want. However, those complaining do have a point about you doing it in this section. You should at least try to save it for anything else. Ya know?
actually my whole point was .. there are some chicks who arent gold diggers
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by penkitten
actually my whole point was .. there are some chicks who arent gold diggers
I know it wasn't YOU...it was Gio. But you and I both know that by me saying that it's likely to turn this thread from you two flirting to Gio and I arguing and me ultimately getting him so pi$$ed off he stomps off again. :D

I don't think there are nearly as many "gold diggers" as guys think there are. Sure, there are some...but most of the women I know aren't. I'm not, either. Hell, I LJBF-ed a multi-millionaire before. If I were a gold digger I would've been all over him because he was actually really hot, too. :D
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
OR... I could do what I thought about doing when I first saw this thread and locking it with a note telling the original poster to do a search for the other ten million times this topic has been brought up.

Your call Wyld... whattaya think?
I think you really wanna stab me in the head with your fork...or you will after you read my last post!

hahahahaha
 

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Gio wrote:
OR... I could do what I thought about doing when I first saw this thread and locking it with a note telling the original poster to do a search for the other ten million times this topic has been brought up.
90% of current topics on this forum aren't new either..... You can't close a thread coz Wylds giving you a little stick, like what else is new!!
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
"gold diggers" Sure, there are some...but most of the women I know aren't. I'm not
I didn't think you were a gold digger.
But, I'm currently serving time in Attica. Am I making you wet?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
I didn't think you were a gold digger.
But, I'm currently serving time in Attica. Am I making you wet?
Now just because I happened to be with ONE guy who was incarcerated doesn't mean I typically go for guys in prison. I only ended up with that one guy because I met his kids first and really grew to love them. They're the ones that got me to go meet him the first time...and believe me, I resisted. I was actually shocked to discover such a gem of a man in prison. He was definitely what I would call a "needle in a haystack". I'd never get involved with another guy in the pen, though. It's honestly really not my style...believe it or not.

Yeah, I know I didn't need to take the thread even further off topic by posting all this, but hey, I figure the thread is already well beyond any hope of recovering...so what the hell, right?
 

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
90% of current topics on this forum aren't new either..... You can't close a thread coz Wylds giving you a little stick, like what else is new!!
I'm giving him a little what? Gio and I don't get along. Never have, never will. The only "stick" action that would ever transpire between Gio and I would be considered a felony assault. :D
 
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Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Men generally come here to grow, women come there to be manipulative gold-diggers
@ TilTheEndOfTime

Not me! I was growing way before I came to this site. I came here to develop my manipulation skills cos women were using me and I knew I deserved better.

Lets face reality for a minute. Women want it all. They want their lives to mirror their favourite movie, be stinking rich, have every man they meet falling at their feet, and be the envy of every other woman on the planet. Call that feminism if you want to - I just call it greedy human nature.

I want it all too. I want to be the richest, sexiest, most adored man ever to walk the planet. So I'm not going to complain about women wanting the same. We're all entitled to our pipe-dreams aren't we?

I think feminism runs deeper than greed - its the desexualisation of women and the hatred of men for being men. It kills relationships and poisons relations.

Why shouldn't a woman want to be financially successful at the same time as being adored by men?

Sounds like the kind of woman I'd quite enjoy dating!?! My problem is when the woman starts trying to lead me in the relationship or starts to resent me for "always thinking about sex" when in actual fact all I'm doing is thinking about sex when she isn't. When Feminism causes her to resent my achievements, or to compete with me, and when it makes her deny the differences between the sexes means that we are suited to different roles that both have immeasurable value - THEN it becomes a problem.

That quote to me isn't so much a hideous example of feminism as a greedy woman expressing her desires...
 

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
I didn't think you were a gold digger.
But, I'm currently serving time in Attica. Am I making you wet?
THAT is some funny sh*t.
 

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rgeere and MetalFortress: She PM me her MSN address, so backoff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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