"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Men don't deserve attractive women
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SeymourCake
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Did not read but the Bible states that you should have the mentality of every woman wanting you. Hot women are no exception.
dk1990S111
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Lol I find it funny how they are all saying things like "there's nothing repulsive about you other than your husband" when there is no picture (that I could see)
That mentality you see in those sites like mumsnet is why women have gained a lot more power in many relationships. They huddle up together and strategise what to do, acting like a p**** cartel on occasion, while men typically battle it out alone. That forum is full of real bitterness and hatred towards men.
Between_The_Lines
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Someone get the OP to that thread a "if you can't accept me at my grossest, you don't deserve me at my best...which is still pretty gross" t-shirt
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If women were cars, imagines all the different kinds of cars existing in the world, except the engines, chassis, bodies, gears, tyres and everything else is random. So you would have a Chrysler Neon body with an Audi 4.2FSI engine and some beefy Michelins and a Ferrari F40 with a 1.5 DCI diesel engine. Don't be afraid of the Ferrari because it looks like it could eat the road. What I'm saying is, no matter how a girl looks like, they are just like any other person, good sides and bad sides. You could feel bad if your life was chaos, half finished college, 2 years of work off college, lost the job, roommates in an appartment, no desire to study, can't get jobs you wish for, hate the jobs you could get, but can't because there aren't any, overweight, balding, get sick often, chronic bad breath, no sense of style, a virgin at 24, no actual prior relationships.... and then you want to ask out a straight 9, boobs, a$$, you name it, she's got it, well dressed- now let's say by some miracle you do get a date - she's a chemist, phd. passionate about her job, many hobbies, works out regularly, bought her own apartment, has small parties often, travels abroad, dances socially, her ex was a brain surgeon, and loves to cruise in her '79 stingray. And you just sh!t your pants.
Now, if you have your life close to where you want it to be, all tidy and neat, you have some semblance of a man with style, are well groomed, have some financial stability, then as long as you look presentable, your looks do not matter. If 1 would be scary ugly, 2 ugly as hell, 3 Robert Pattinson ugly and 10 would be orgasm inducing handsome, then from 3-10 can get any girl they want. So, first get your life together if it isn't already, then KNOW that you can get a girl as hot as they come, just not actually ANY girl. Some are in a relationship, some are looking for someone with an abusive personality or an alcoholic and won't respond well to your coolness, some will have some tragedy happened to them and aren't over it yet, but anyone normal in a normal state of mind.
Now, if you have your life close to where you want it to be, all tidy and neat, you have some semblance of a man with style, are well groomed, have some financial stability, then as long as you look presentable, your looks do not matter. If 1 would be scary ugly, 2 ugly as hell, 3 Robert Pattinson ugly and 10 would be orgasm inducing handsome, then from 3-10 can get any girl they want. So, first get your life together if it isn't already, then KNOW that you can get a girl as hot as they come, just not actually ANY girl. Some are in a relationship, some are looking for someone with an abusive personality or an alcoholic and won't respond well to your coolness, some will have some tragedy happened to them and aren't over it yet, but anyone normal in a normal state of mind.
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Yeah, women think its cool to not take care of themselves and then expect that we should just overlook it...f that...if she doesn't respect herself why does she expect her husband to
