"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Men aren't the lovers they think they are

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Sex survey finds U.S. men aren't the lovers they think they are - and women 'faking it' is to blame.

http://www.nydailynews.com/lifestyle/health/2010/10/04/2010-10-04_sex.html

American men aren't the sexual studs they think they are.

That perception gap was one of the more startling findings in the nation's most comprehensive sex survey since 1994.

Eighty-five percent of men told Indiana University researchers their latest sexual partner had an orgasm, while only 64% of women reported having an orgasm the last time they had sex.

While that might be ego-deflating news for many gents, the authors of the study said there's much in the findings to reassure Americans about their sex lives.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tiguere said:
Sex survey finds U.S. men aren't the lovers they think they are - and women 'faking it' is to blame.

http://www.nydailynews.com/lifestyle/health/2010/10/04/2010-10-04_sex.html

American men aren't the sexual studs they think they are.

That perception gap was one of the more startling findings in the nation's most comprehensive sex survey since 1994.

Eighty-five percent of men told Indiana University researchers their latest sexual partner had an orgasm, while only 64% of women reported having an orgasm the last time they had sex.

While that might be ego-deflating news for many gents, the authors of the study said there's much in the findings to reassure Americans about their sex lives.
They are who we thought they were!
 

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Like the dude with a small penis. Woman asks him, "Who you gonna please with that?" He answers, "ME!!!!"

As long as you get yours, then all is fine in the Western world. Not quite. If I really like the women, I am pulling out all the stops to make sure she knows I am the king! If it is some average lay, I am still going to give a decent effort.
 

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f283000 said:
rofl! surveys about sex are about as reliable as a horoscope.
and about as reliable as asking ppl on SS to give an honest opinion how good looking they are

SoldMySoul said:
If I really like the women, I am pulling out all the stops to make sure she knows I am the king! If it is some average lay, I am still going to give a decent effort.
mee too i like to give a good performance , and be remembered and i do do a good job often
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HeyPachuco! said:
*Anticipates for BigJimbo on his social commentary and YouTube Clips for the latest geographic-related thread*
rofl! I'm surprised he hasn't actually posted already. BigJimbo is part of sosuave culture. Any thread involving talk about Americans (specially american women) and he will be there to remind how much much greener the grass is in Eastern Europe :cool:

BigJimbo has a deep hatred for American feminized women. A hatred so deep that it burns like an everlasting fire that cannot be put out ;)
 

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And guess what? I pretend to give a **** about your education/background/friends just so i can get you to give me head, so we are even.
 

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reminds me of the joke "I whipped it out and she said 'who are you gonna please with that?' I said, 'ME!'"
 

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Sh!t I'll tell you right now I can give any woman (almost) an orgasm. It just takes a long time. Lot's of four play, I remember one girl I used to mess with. I had her playing with herself while we drove around for a place to fvck. That sh!t takes way way to long. So now I just get mine and don't give a freak what you get :) sorry
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'll be honest..I reallyu don't give a **** if she gets off or not. that's her fault lol.

why should i be concerned with getting her off and getting me off? that's not fair.

a woman who wants to get off, will get off. i know when we are having sex (my woman) and she wants to get off, versus she is doing it to please me which actually isn't all that often, we are more quality than quantity sex people neither of us is into ****ing 3 times a day but when we **** we **** lol. I remember maybe 3 months ago I had her ass climbing up the headboard. I have gotten quite good at going down on women. wasn't something i was good at at first, i got that **** down pact now to a T. back looked like a damn mc donalds sign. anyway, i put it in and she's screaming, i mean, screaming, son runs in the room says "i want wrestle too!". i don't think i ever laughed that hard in my life.. anyway, generally 2 or so times a week which is more than enough for me. but like, when she knows she ****ed up, or wants something lol, she will come at me and i can tell she just wants me to get off, which i am not going to complain. neither is wrong or right it just is. when she wants to get off she will be very specific on what she wants done. just follow instructions.
 

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backbreaker said:
I'll be honest..I reallyu don't give a **** if she gets off or not. that's her fault lol.

why should i be concerned with getting her off and getting me off? that's not fair.

a woman who wants to get off, will get off. i know when we are having sex (my woman) and she wants to get off, versus she is doing it to please me which actually isn't all that often, we are more quality than quantity sex people neither of us is into ****ing 3 times a day but when we **** we **** lol. I remember maybe 3 months ago I had her ass climbing up the headboard. I have gotten quite good at going down on women. wasn't something i was good at at first, i got that **** down pact now to a T. back looked like a damn mc donalds sign. anyway, i put it in and she's screaming, i mean, screaming, son runs in the room says "i want wrestle too!". i don't think i ever laughed that hard in my life.. anyway, generally 2 or so times a week which is more than enough for me. but like, when she knows she ****ed up, or wants something lol, she will come at me and i can tell she just wants me to get off, which i am not going to complain. neither is wrong or right it just is. when she wants to get off she will be very specific on what she wants done. just follow instructions.
I don't see what's wrong with fvcking 2 or three times a day. I would fvck all day if I could. You are on the right track though the more time you go without it the better it is. Going down on women blah it's sexy if she shaves it sucks if she doesn't. I will be honest very rarely (read never) have I put it in and a girl has screamed. Only while doing it has she screamed,puts me to shame.
 

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i'm just to pragmatic to **** 3 times a day. i mean, it has it's place. we got into a big fight.. go look in the mature man section about 3 months ago or do a search for my name i posted it here, she was in the wrong, knew she was in the wrong, and we fuycked damn near 3 days straight. as good as that sounds, it's just not practical. work doesn't get done, i don't get to go to the gym, the normal flow of everyday life stops.
 
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