"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Men aren't the lovers they think they are

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Sex survey finds U.S. men aren't the lovers they think they are - and women 'faking it' is to blame.

http://www.nydailynews.com/lifestyle/health/2010/10/04/2010-10-04_sex.html

American men aren't the sexual studs they think they are.

That perception gap was one of the more startling findings in the nation's most comprehensive sex survey since 1994.

Eighty-five percent of men told Indiana University researchers their latest sexual partner had an orgasm, while only 64% of women reported having an orgasm the last time they had sex.

While that might be ego-deflating news for many gents, the authors of the study said there's much in the findings to reassure Americans about their sex lives.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tiguere said:
Sex survey finds U.S. men aren't the lovers they think they are - and women 'faking it' is to blame.

http://www.nydailynews.com/lifestyle/health/2010/10/04/2010-10-04_sex.html

American men aren't the sexual studs they think they are.

That perception gap was one of the more startling findings in the nation's most comprehensive sex survey since 1994.

Eighty-five percent of men told Indiana University researchers their latest sexual partner had an orgasm, while only 64% of women reported having an orgasm the last time they had sex.

While that might be ego-deflating news for many gents, the authors of the study said there's much in the findings to reassure Americans about their sex lives.
They are who we thought they were!
 

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Like the dude with a small penis. Woman asks him, "Who you gonna please with that?" He answers, "ME!!!!"

As long as you get yours, then all is fine in the Western world. Not quite. If I really like the women, I am pulling out all the stops to make sure she knows I am the king! If it is some average lay, I am still going to give a decent effort.
 

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f283000 said:
rofl! surveys about sex are about as reliable as a horoscope.
and about as reliable as asking ppl on SS to give an honest opinion how good looking they are

SoldMySoul said:
If I really like the women, I am pulling out all the stops to make sure she knows I am the king! If it is some average lay, I am still going to give a decent effort.
mee too i like to give a good performance , and be remembered and i do do a good job often
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HeyPachuco! said:
*Anticipates for BigJimbo on his social commentary and YouTube Clips for the latest geographic-related thread*
rofl! I'm surprised he hasn't actually posted already. BigJimbo is part of sosuave culture. Any thread involving talk about Americans (specially american women) and he will be there to remind how much much greener the grass is in Eastern Europe :cool:

BigJimbo has a deep hatred for American feminized women. A hatred so deep that it burns like an everlasting fire that cannot be put out ;)
 

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And guess what? I pretend to give a **** about your education/background/friends just so i can get you to give me head, so we are even.
 

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reminds me of the joke "I whipped it out and she said 'who are you gonna please with that?' I said, 'ME!'"
 

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Sh!t I'll tell you right now I can give any woman (almost) an orgasm. It just takes a long time. Lot's of four play, I remember one girl I used to mess with. I had her playing with herself while we drove around for a place to fvck. That sh!t takes way way to long. So now I just get mine and don't give a freak what you get :) sorry
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'll be honest..I reallyu don't give a **** if she gets off or not. that's her fault lol.

why should i be concerned with getting her off and getting me off? that's not fair.

a woman who wants to get off, will get off. i know when we are having sex (my woman) and she wants to get off, versus she is doing it to please me which actually isn't all that often, we are more quality than quantity sex people neither of us is into ****ing 3 times a day but when we **** we **** lol. I remember maybe 3 months ago I had her ass climbing up the headboard. I have gotten quite good at going down on women. wasn't something i was good at at first, i got that **** down pact now to a T. back looked like a damn mc donalds sign. anyway, i put it in and she's screaming, i mean, screaming, son runs in the room says "i want wrestle too!". i don't think i ever laughed that hard in my life.. anyway, generally 2 or so times a week which is more than enough for me. but like, when she knows she ****ed up, or wants something lol, she will come at me and i can tell she just wants me to get off, which i am not going to complain. neither is wrong or right it just is. when she wants to get off she will be very specific on what she wants done. just follow instructions.
 

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backbreaker said:
I'll be honest..I reallyu don't give a **** if she gets off or not. that's her fault lol.

why should i be concerned with getting her off and getting me off? that's not fair.

a woman who wants to get off, will get off. i know when we are having sex (my woman) and she wants to get off, versus she is doing it to please me which actually isn't all that often, we are more quality than quantity sex people neither of us is into ****ing 3 times a day but when we **** we **** lol. I remember maybe 3 months ago I had her ass climbing up the headboard. I have gotten quite good at going down on women. wasn't something i was good at at first, i got that **** down pact now to a T. back looked like a damn mc donalds sign. anyway, i put it in and she's screaming, i mean, screaming, son runs in the room says "i want wrestle too!". i don't think i ever laughed that hard in my life.. anyway, generally 2 or so times a week which is more than enough for me. but like, when she knows she ****ed up, or wants something lol, she will come at me and i can tell she just wants me to get off, which i am not going to complain. neither is wrong or right it just is. when she wants to get off she will be very specific on what she wants done. just follow instructions.
I don't see what's wrong with fvcking 2 or three times a day. I would fvck all day if I could. You are on the right track though the more time you go without it the better it is. Going down on women blah it's sexy if she shaves it sucks if she doesn't. I will be honest very rarely (read never) have I put it in and a girl has screamed. Only while doing it has she screamed,puts me to shame.
 

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i'm just to pragmatic to **** 3 times a day. i mean, it has it's place. we got into a big fight.. go look in the mature man section about 3 months ago or do a search for my name i posted it here, she was in the wrong, knew she was in the wrong, and we fuycked damn near 3 days straight. as good as that sounds, it's just not practical. work doesn't get done, i don't get to go to the gym, the normal flow of everyday life stops.
 
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