"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Men/actors you should look up to.

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That said there is nothing wrong with using famous ficticious characters to provide example of coolness or well dress or suaviness as to illustrate a point over the internet. Or even to get ideas.

But in real life YOU should strive to be the person that sets the example. You should strive to be the "suave" and "cool" dude. The "well dressed" man. YOU...the dude that other men either look up to or envy. Or quite simply the Man that other "m"en don't understand (you are out of the Matrix...they still in it -notice movie reference?-)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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here's a not so obvious but PERFECT actor who is the player/seducer we should all be like:

Ryan Renolds (He was the main guy in Waiting, Van Wylder, Just Friends)

he is completely pimp in all those movies with his ****y confident charming attitude
 

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Sexual said:
Jeez, get a life.... actors? Han Solo? Look up to yourself. Be men.

You want celebrities? Take example of Dane Cook. Look up to Lance Armstrong. Even observe Fidel Castro.

Take what you love, and you love about life. Be passionate. If you can't find your passion, keep searching.
It was a joke.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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backbreaker said:
double post


Triple even! While I agree with you for the most part, I gotta disagree when it comes to body language.


I've learned a lot from watching Oceans 11/12/13 as far as good body language goes. Clooney and Pitt make BL look like child's-play. I know I could use some work in this department. I'm kinda considering taking dance classes (not that hip-hop crap) in school. I think you could learn a lot on how to carry yourself in an attractive way.
 

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Aleister Crowley - He lived his life on HIS terms and his terms alone.

Jim Morrison - Who the fvck is a more renaissance man than he?

Tiger Woods - A fvcking winner.

Jesus of Nazareth - Whether he's the messiah or not who knows, but he has a following in the billions and legions of people who will kill others wthout a thought.
 
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