"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Men/actors you should look up to.

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That said there is nothing wrong with using famous ficticious characters to provide example of coolness or well dress or suaviness as to illustrate a point over the internet. Or even to get ideas.

But in real life YOU should strive to be the person that sets the example. You should strive to be the "suave" and "cool" dude. The "well dressed" man. YOU...the dude that other men either look up to or envy. Or quite simply the Man that other "m"en don't understand (you are out of the Matrix...they still in it -notice movie reference?-)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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here's a not so obvious but PERFECT actor who is the player/seducer we should all be like:

Ryan Renolds (He was the main guy in Waiting, Van Wylder, Just Friends)

he is completely pimp in all those movies with his ****y confident charming attitude
 

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Sexual said:
Jeez, get a life.... actors? Han Solo? Look up to yourself. Be men.

You want celebrities? Take example of Dane Cook. Look up to Lance Armstrong. Even observe Fidel Castro.

Take what you love, and you love about life. Be passionate. If you can't find your passion, keep searching.
It was a joke.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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backbreaker said:
double post


Triple even! While I agree with you for the most part, I gotta disagree when it comes to body language.


I've learned a lot from watching Oceans 11/12/13 as far as good body language goes. Clooney and Pitt make BL look like child's-play. I know I could use some work in this department. I'm kinda considering taking dance classes (not that hip-hop crap) in school. I think you could learn a lot on how to carry yourself in an attractive way.
 

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Aleister Crowley - He lived his life on HIS terms and his terms alone.

Jim Morrison - Who the fvck is a more renaissance man than he?

Tiger Woods - A fvcking winner.

Jesus of Nazareth - Whether he's the messiah or not who knows, but he has a following in the billions and legions of people who will kill others wthout a thought.
 
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