"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Men/actors you should look up to.

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That said there is nothing wrong with using famous ficticious characters to provide example of coolness or well dress or suaviness as to illustrate a point over the internet. Or even to get ideas.

But in real life YOU should strive to be the person that sets the example. You should strive to be the "suave" and "cool" dude. The "well dressed" man. YOU...the dude that other men either look up to or envy. Or quite simply the Man that other "m"en don't understand (you are out of the Matrix...they still in it -notice movie reference?-)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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here's a not so obvious but PERFECT actor who is the player/seducer we should all be like:

Ryan Renolds (He was the main guy in Waiting, Van Wylder, Just Friends)

he is completely pimp in all those movies with his ****y confident charming attitude
 

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Sexual said:
Jeez, get a life.... actors? Han Solo? Look up to yourself. Be men.

You want celebrities? Take example of Dane Cook. Look up to Lance Armstrong. Even observe Fidel Castro.

Take what you love, and you love about life. Be passionate. If you can't find your passion, keep searching.
It was a joke.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backbreaker said:
double post


Triple even! While I agree with you for the most part, I gotta disagree when it comes to body language.


I've learned a lot from watching Oceans 11/12/13 as far as good body language goes. Clooney and Pitt make BL look like child's-play. I know I could use some work in this department. I'm kinda considering taking dance classes (not that hip-hop crap) in school. I think you could learn a lot on how to carry yourself in an attractive way.
 

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Aleister Crowley - He lived his life on HIS terms and his terms alone.

Jim Morrison - Who the fvck is a more renaissance man than he?

Tiger Woods - A fvcking winner.

Jesus of Nazareth - Whether he's the messiah or not who knows, but he has a following in the billions and legions of people who will kill others wthout a thought.
 
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