"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Memorize the first nine sentences

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NO FEAR
NO DISTRACTIONS

NO FEAR
NO HESITITATION

NO FEAR
NO REASON TO DISBELIEVE YOURSELF

LET GO
LET GO
LET GO

Attraction: To arouse or compel the interest, admiration, or attention of

Desire: To wish or long for; want.

Eliminate desire.
Approach because you are interested.

Can someone elaborate on this?
When you approach, is not your ultimate motive desire? In the end, you approach because you desire to have an intimate relationship, and sex, with a chick. I'm a little ambiguous on this...for the moment. :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Attraction: To arouse or compel the interest, admiration, or attention of

Desire: To wish or long for; want.
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That is your answer right there.

The way I see it, Desire and Attraction are very closely related, but Desire is simply attraction spun wildly out of control.

Because Desire is so out of control, it can lead you to be out of control. It can make you do things you shouldn't, and return you back to the wimpering little AFC that many of us started out as.

I'm not saying that Desire is a bad thing, but you need to keep it in check, or else all the horrible things talked about here can happen.... oneitis, AFCness, and many hurt feelings (mainly yours).
 
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The way I see it, Desire and Attraction are very closely related, but Desire is simply attraction spun wildly out of control.

Because Desire is so out of control, it can lead you to be out of control.
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Here here. I was amazed at the progress I had made during the fall semester this year while talking to the ladies that came in to eat where I work. But now it's all gone, I went from simply being interested to flat out feeling like I need this one girl.

The academic part of my mind that has read though this forum keeps telling me to forget her but the rest of me says no. Keeping your interest under control is vital to being successful, or at least staying sane.
 
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