"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Memorize the first nine sentences

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NO FEAR
NO DISTRACTIONS

NO FEAR
NO HESITITATION

NO FEAR
NO REASON TO DISBELIEVE YOURSELF

LET GO
LET GO
LET GO

Attraction: To arouse or compel the interest, admiration, or attention of

Desire: To wish or long for; want.

Eliminate desire.
Approach because you are interested.

Can someone elaborate on this?
When you approach, is not your ultimate motive desire? In the end, you approach because you desire to have an intimate relationship, and sex, with a chick. I'm a little ambiguous on this...for the moment. :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Attraction: To arouse or compel the interest, admiration, or attention of

Desire: To wish or long for; want.
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That is your answer right there.

The way I see it, Desire and Attraction are very closely related, but Desire is simply attraction spun wildly out of control.

Because Desire is so out of control, it can lead you to be out of control. It can make you do things you shouldn't, and return you back to the wimpering little AFC that many of us started out as.

I'm not saying that Desire is a bad thing, but you need to keep it in check, or else all the horrible things talked about here can happen.... oneitis, AFCness, and many hurt feelings (mainly yours).
 
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The way I see it, Desire and Attraction are very closely related, but Desire is simply attraction spun wildly out of control.

Because Desire is so out of control, it can lead you to be out of control.
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Here here. I was amazed at the progress I had made during the fall semester this year while talking to the ladies that came in to eat where I work. But now it's all gone, I went from simply being interested to flat out feeling like I need this one girl.

The academic part of my mind that has read though this forum keeps telling me to forget her but the rest of me says no. Keeping your interest under control is vital to being successful, or at least staying sane.
 
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