"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wavejams007

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Lately members here have been at each other's throats more and more. There is more insulting, and the more insults there are, the less mature members are showing themselves to be. I thought this place to be a place where we can discuss ideas frankly for the beneift of ourselves and others. nstead it is being polluted by people who are quick to just insult others, and in the end destroy productive discussions.

I am not saying to become politically correct. I am for honesty, even in its most brutal form. But don't just say for example, " That is BS, you are a moron" or something similar or worse without a ligitimate reason.

Honestly, these flame wars that start here can at times be humorous, but in the end are pointless, and distract people from the objectives of these forums.

Just my 2 cents' worth.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ_in_making

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I have a theory...

I think ever since guys learned jerks get all the girls, they start being ****s b/c they think it's somehow gonna get them some P*ssy. Well, it's not!!!
Dissing a fellow don juan doesn't make u a jerk that all the women want. It makes u an AFC that's redirecting his anger toward others.........

wow, I feel much better now. Immo take a nap.
 

SamMalone

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The worst is when guys are so insecure they feel the need to qualify themselves to the rest of us by just adding a "Girls says I'm cute" or "I banged this chick her is a pic". It's somewhat sad to read because it proves only the outer game is being focused on and the inner game is being overlooked by a lot of these guys.
 

AsianInvasion

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I am with you guys. Just losers who are more interested in getting a high post count. My favorite retard is The_Juan_And_Only reg Dec 2005 and has 139 posts already! You know how he thinks he is a Don Juan "Look Mommie I have 139 posts already! Does this means the girls will want to kiss me instead of eating boogers like they use to?" Just alot of childish people. Then my favorite post VVhore and he is old old man always celebrating his post numbers and talking about his new Calvin Klein Depends! Pot_Roast_Lover. I knew from the get go when setting up my user name to add him to my ignore list. Rememeber its quality not quanity!

WOW I just searched and saw PotRoast_Lover has been banned!! That is the best news I have heard in a long long time! Does anybody know what the clown did?
 
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j8snx1

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hahahaha just reading this made me laugh!

Yeah I couldn't have said it any better than you guys did. I posted up some things that were on my mind at the moment, and the first replies I get is junk advice like "DAFS" whatever that means... or "AFC fag" or any kind of garbage putting me down. Heck, I'm not a 100% DJ master yet, but I'm still learning, but hearing put-downs from a bunch of punk-@$$e$ who think they're better than anyone here because they have 1000 posts is REALLY encouraging~!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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