"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wavejams007

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Lately members here have been at each other's throats more and more. There is more insulting, and the more insults there are, the less mature members are showing themselves to be. I thought this place to be a place where we can discuss ideas frankly for the beneift of ourselves and others. nstead it is being polluted by people who are quick to just insult others, and in the end destroy productive discussions.

I am not saying to become politically correct. I am for honesty, even in its most brutal form. But don't just say for example, " That is BS, you are a moron" or something similar or worse without a ligitimate reason.

Honestly, these flame wars that start here can at times be humorous, but in the end are pointless, and distract people from the objectives of these forums.

Just my 2 cents' worth.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ_in_making

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I have a theory...

I think ever since guys learned jerks get all the girls, they start being ****s b/c they think it's somehow gonna get them some P*ssy. Well, it's not!!!
Dissing a fellow don juan doesn't make u a jerk that all the women want. It makes u an AFC that's redirecting his anger toward others.........

wow, I feel much better now. Immo take a nap.
 

SamMalone

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The worst is when guys are so insecure they feel the need to qualify themselves to the rest of us by just adding a "Girls says I'm cute" or "I banged this chick her is a pic". It's somewhat sad to read because it proves only the outer game is being focused on and the inner game is being overlooked by a lot of these guys.
 

AsianInvasion

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I am with you guys. Just losers who are more interested in getting a high post count. My favorite retard is The_Juan_And_Only reg Dec 2005 and has 139 posts already! You know how he thinks he is a Don Juan "Look Mommie I have 139 posts already! Does this means the girls will want to kiss me instead of eating boogers like they use to?" Just alot of childish people. Then my favorite post VVhore and he is old old man always celebrating his post numbers and talking about his new Calvin Klein Depends! Pot_Roast_Lover. I knew from the get go when setting up my user name to add him to my ignore list. Rememeber its quality not quanity!

WOW I just searched and saw PotRoast_Lover has been banned!! That is the best news I have heard in a long long time! Does anybody know what the clown did?
 
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j8snx1

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hahahaha just reading this made me laugh!

Yeah I couldn't have said it any better than you guys did. I posted up some things that were on my mind at the moment, and the first replies I get is junk advice like "DAFS" whatever that means... or "AFC fag" or any kind of garbage putting me down. Heck, I'm not a 100% DJ master yet, but I'm still learning, but hearing put-downs from a bunch of punk-@$$e$ who think they're better than anyone here because they have 1000 posts is REALLY encouraging~!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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