Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Aresx

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i know that underneath the names of the users, it has the "don juan" or "master don juan" that only goes by the amount of posts that member has made

how about a quick profile like this:

AresX
Age: 21
Location: Miami, FL
Looks rating: 5-7
Status: rAFC
F-closes: 0
Kiss Closes: 0
Number closes: 0
Approaches: 10
Relationship status: LTR 3 years, rocky/soap opera

or something like that. this would NOT be to establish a "rank", but as a way of measuring your progress and having others see what point you are in the game. this should also prevent WBAFCs starting shyt - or people will know when to take a members advice with a grain of salt.

and for those of you who happen to have beef with another member who is an experienced dj or pua, well... just ignore the posts instead of arguing with them every single time (i've noticed this a lot with player_supreme... i don't agree with a lot of what he says, but i'm sure there's at least ONE thing i can learn from his experience
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Some of us don't really count our #closes and stuff...

having an open category like

status:rAFC

might be a nice idea... People can lie of course, but if your truly a AFC you wouldn't put DJ because you want to learn. The only problem would be Keyboard Jockeys who put fake things up. This might actually be a simple solution to tide us through for the moment.

I like.

Though I don't know if the software would allow that. i know others do but I belive they are running an older version...

~capi
 

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well, if not a NUMBER of closes, at least an estimated percentage rate

for example (not me)
#closes:80%
kisscloses:65%
f-closes:15% (which isn't that bad)

of course these would be approximations.

and i think we'd be able to identify keyboard jockeys by the contents of their posts.
i'm honest to a fault, so people would believe me if i say i'm an rAFC. when i get to DJ/PUA status, my posts will reflect it, but for anyone new to the board, they will know if they can ask me for help and if my advice is sound...
 

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see soundness of advice doesn't work here though. A lot of people who come here grab onto whatever tidbit they can find. True or Not... if you told every AFC that came to this site that woment are alien she-devils from planet-X about 15% would believe you at LEAST...

So a keyboard Jockey thats posting decent stuff. Stuff that might ring to a AFC as 'could be true' even though we know it isn't can be very harming. Then they leave this site even more damaged...
 

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damn i hate to say this, but

how about turning the 'popularity' vote on? problem is if someone has beef with another poster, even their good ideas suffer...

if only people could get rated by the quality of thier posts - we all do it personally, but new people (such as myself) would benefit from immediately going to the most respected posters...

i don't know... maybe it's to hard to implement this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by xi phi pi
Ares, shorten your signature.
maximum of 10 lines, look at the "Annoncement"
 
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