"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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meh, I need to get my life back on track

escobar04

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seriosuly, ive been single for months, fail school (my only responsibily) and go to work and gym

thats it

and the funny part is that I dont give a crap about anything or anyone and too lazy to get up off the couch

I seriously have no passion for life or any ambition or desires

what should i do? just pack my sh!t and move to like London or Australia and become a bartender or something random like that?

I keep re-reading POOK's "Be a Man" article but keep losing myself

maybe a new hobby will inspire me to do something? cos I keep looking back at all the "real men" threads and they all say - develop your character, be passionate about life, be ambitions and women will be attracted to you, etc

but what if passion doesnt exist in your life and you seriously dont give a rat's a$$ about anything?

any of you in the same boat? ...and if so....how do you get out

thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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azzak

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i recommend you go travelling. best way to find yourself and figure out what u really like.

ive been in the same boat. when i finished school i was lost. i went travelling round the world and came back exactly 1 year later a new man with new passions. every so often a get into a rut again and going travelling somewhere always fixes it.

but you gotta go somewhere far away, i mean overseas, for a longish time, like at least a few months.

driving to the nearest city for a week might be fun but wont be much help for your situation.

man reading posts on the internet wont help in a situation like this. u just gotta go out there and figure it out for yourself. goodluck
 

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Yep. Just do it, it will force you to meet people and have a good time.
 
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