"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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meh, I need to get my life back on track

escobar04

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seriosuly, ive been single for months, fail school (my only responsibily) and go to work and gym

thats it

and the funny part is that I dont give a crap about anything or anyone and too lazy to get up off the couch

I seriously have no passion for life or any ambition or desires

what should i do? just pack my sh!t and move to like London or Australia and become a bartender or something random like that?

I keep re-reading POOK's "Be a Man" article but keep losing myself

maybe a new hobby will inspire me to do something? cos I keep looking back at all the "real men" threads and they all say - develop your character, be passionate about life, be ambitions and women will be attracted to you, etc

but what if passion doesnt exist in your life and you seriously dont give a rat's a$$ about anything?

any of you in the same boat? ...and if so....how do you get out

thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

azzak

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i recommend you go travelling. best way to find yourself and figure out what u really like.

ive been in the same boat. when i finished school i was lost. i went travelling round the world and came back exactly 1 year later a new man with new passions. every so often a get into a rut again and going travelling somewhere always fixes it.

but you gotta go somewhere far away, i mean overseas, for a longish time, like at least a few months.

driving to the nearest city for a week might be fun but wont be much help for your situation.

man reading posts on the internet wont help in a situation like this. u just gotta go out there and figure it out for yourself. goodluck
 

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Yep. Just do it, it will force you to meet people and have a good time.
 
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