Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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meh, I need to get my life back on track

escobar04

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seriosuly, ive been single for months, fail school (my only responsibily) and go to work and gym

thats it

and the funny part is that I dont give a crap about anything or anyone and too lazy to get up off the couch

I seriously have no passion for life or any ambition or desires

what should i do? just pack my sh!t and move to like London or Australia and become a bartender or something random like that?

I keep re-reading POOK's "Be a Man" article but keep losing myself

maybe a new hobby will inspire me to do something? cos I keep looking back at all the "real men" threads and they all say - develop your character, be passionate about life, be ambitions and women will be attracted to you, etc

but what if passion doesnt exist in your life and you seriously dont give a rat's a$$ about anything?

any of you in the same boat? ...and if so....how do you get out

thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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azzak

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i recommend you go travelling. best way to find yourself and figure out what u really like.

ive been in the same boat. when i finished school i was lost. i went travelling round the world and came back exactly 1 year later a new man with new passions. every so often a get into a rut again and going travelling somewhere always fixes it.

but you gotta go somewhere far away, i mean overseas, for a longish time, like at least a few months.

driving to the nearest city for a week might be fun but wont be much help for your situation.

man reading posts on the internet wont help in a situation like this. u just gotta go out there and figure it out for yourself. goodluck
 

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Yep. Just do it, it will force you to meet people and have a good time.
 
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