"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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meetup.com is it useful?

cfdagola

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Just about the only online community that i see where people are actively trying to find others who enjoy the same passions or at least have similar likes is meetup.com

i was watching some day game videos and one of the coach's was saying if you need new friends and your circle is to small then join an online community and meet others that like to do the same things you do.

Anybody try meetup.com?

i was thinking about going to a bar crawl meetup at the very least meet some new people doesn't matter if they're male or female. just looking for some new friends maybe if i expand my social circle a bit i can potentially meet new women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mr. kennedy

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Go for the activities, not the chicks.

You are better off making friends with guys than picking up the unattractive girls that attend.
 

evan12

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Yes , meetup is good , even when you go to bar in meetup there are poeple who you can talk with them. Beside that it is fun ( and a lot of women usually ). meetup only work in big cities bty
 

Zarky

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Meetup.com leads to social-circle game if you stay in the group long enough. If you do it, though, make sure you pick an activity you genuinely enjoy because it's gonna take a long time to bag broads that way.

Meetup groups are like small communities. As the "new guy" you'll have to work your way up to the attractive chicks just as in any other hierarchy. Meetup groups have "alpha males," "betas," sluts and popular girls just like very single other human community.
 
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