"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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meetup.com is it useful?

cfdagola

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Just about the only online community that i see where people are actively trying to find others who enjoy the same passions or at least have similar likes is meetup.com

i was watching some day game videos and one of the coach's was saying if you need new friends and your circle is to small then join an online community and meet others that like to do the same things you do.

Anybody try meetup.com?

i was thinking about going to a bar crawl meetup at the very least meet some new people doesn't matter if they're male or female. just looking for some new friends maybe if i expand my social circle a bit i can potentially meet new women.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mr. kennedy

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Go for the activities, not the chicks.

You are better off making friends with guys than picking up the unattractive girls that attend.
 

evan12

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Yes , meetup is good , even when you go to bar in meetup there are poeple who you can talk with them. Beside that it is fun ( and a lot of women usually ). meetup only work in big cities bty
 

Zarky

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Meetup.com leads to social-circle game if you stay in the group long enough. If you do it, though, make sure you pick an activity you genuinely enjoy because it's gonna take a long time to bag broads that way.

Meetup groups are like small communities. As the "new guy" you'll have to work your way up to the attractive chicks just as in any other hierarchy. Meetup groups have "alpha males," "betas," sluts and popular girls just like very single other human community.
 
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