Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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Why are you dealing in absolutes?Women like “cheaters.” They talk shvt about them then privately go sleep with these guys.
Look at Derrick Jaxn.
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Why are you dealing in absolutes?Women like “cheaters.” They talk shvt about them then privately go sleep with these guys.
Look at Derrick Jaxn.
Generalizations are not absolutes.Why are you dealing in absolutes?
I don't know why you find this surprising. Women are creatures of emotion. They will always pick something that feels good over something that is objectively good. The only time when a woman would not chose chemistry over objective positive qualities is when her survival instinct kicks in. If a woman knows that by choosing a "bad boy" she will end up on the street, she might go for the boring provider type. However, if a woman has some degree of financial independence, it's feelz over pragmatism 99% of the time.There were a few threads on the other forum just within the past couple of weeks created by women who dumped their "awesome" long time boyfriends for bad boy "players" who were sexy and hot but offered them nothing but great "chemistry" and hot sex.
I am not disputing that at all. Women definitely get tingles by "cheating" with us. No doubt about it. But it doesn't change the fact that I, for reasons not completely related to women, don't find the benefits to outweigh the risks. Not something I want.Women like “cheaters.” They talk shvt about them then privately go sleep with these guys.
Look at Derrick Jaxn.
Oh perhaps he got better at not getting caught.Sorry about your parents. Your family background is similar to mine. My mother also had a JD and she divorced my dad over the mistress. Like your dad my father married the mistress and they were together until he passed. He did NOT cheat on my stepmom.
No such thing. Why do women always express a preference for men who make them feel "safe" and "secure"? To compensate for something they naturally don't have. Women are insecure by nature, which goes hand-in-hand with being creatures of emotion. You cannot be emotional and NOT insecure. It's like being on fire and not being hot. Physically impossible.But if a man has a woman who IS secure?
That is the ultimate disrespect.Talking bout cheating..this is wild shyte.
This is what I mean. Some women (and men) just can't resist the excitement that comes along with cheating . I bet her lover ain't too happy when she wants to move in with him...the victim dude was the necessary fuel to heat up the affair, without his energy ,concerne and anger there is no "chance of getting caught " and it's just a dysfunctional relationship at best.
Dude must be the worst cheater of all time then. I mean it's not that hard to not get caught even when you are doing it regularly. You have to be really really sloppy with things unless you are around people that know you.
Wow...that is really bad...might as well just tell her yourselfI know a guy that used the family debit card for hotel rooms, supposedly by mistake…
A woman’s perception on a quality woman is very different than that of a man’sListen. If you guys want to keep around insecure neurotic women? Carry on as you are doing.
But understand something. Think of high value people like college students at Harvard. It’s an exclusive group and very few people qualify. But if you are a Harvard grad? You have your choice of top opportunities out in the world and you command top dollar. If you have elite value in the SMP you also have your choices among the best mating options. And a man who will run around on a lesser chick will seek to Lock. You. Down. And he might mate guard too. You see he’s been around as a sought after man. He knows what’s up. And he also knows there are many many men who would love to get the girl he has because she is RARE and therefore valuable.
So he knows if he wants to stay partnered to a great woman? He is loyal. Just as he will accept nothing less, neither will she.
When you pull all this plate spinning game stuff and refuse to be loyal yourself?
Congratulations. You are selecting against quality and selecting for the trash. No wonder some of you don’t think quality women exist. You’ve screened them out already. Great news for a solid man who knows quality when he sees it.
Listen. If you guys want to keep around insecure neurotic women? Carry on as you are doing.
But understand something. Think of high value people like college students at Harvard. It’s an exclusive group and very few people qualify. But if you are a Harvard grad? You have your choice of top opportunities out in the world and you command top dollar. If you have elite value in the SMP you also have your choices among the best mating options. And a man who will run around on a lesser chick will seek to Lock. You. Down. And he might mate guard too. You see he’s been around as a sought after man. He knows what’s up. And he also knows there are many many men who would love to get the girl he has because she is RARE and therefore valuable.
So he knows if he wants to stay partnered to a great woman? He is loyal. Just as he will accept nothing less, neither will she.
When you pull all this plate spinning game stuff and refuse to be loyal yourself?
Congratulations. You are selecting against quality and selecting for the trash. No wonder some of you don’t think quality women exist. You’ve screened them out already. Great news for a solid man who knows quality when he sees it.
even men have different values because it’s obvious on this site lolA woman’s perception on a quality woman is very different than that of a man’s
There's a reason you have your current girlfriend. Keep it that way. Pretend your ex never existed. Everything will be better by doing that.
I think you and I had the same reaction but expressed in a bit different ways.Congratulations. You are selecting against quality and selecting for the trash. No wonder some of you don’t think quality women exist. You’ve screened them out already. Great news for a solid man who knows quality when he sees it.
All women (unless they are insecure af) rather share a high value male than be saddled with a looser. And given the limited number of high value males, women have no choice but to share the high value males. All your ancestors have done it, and all your descendents will do it. It's just the human nature.
There's a saying in the Manosphere that women would rather share an alpha than have a loyal beta all to themselves.Truly high value women will NOT share. They will be alone first. And let’s face it….they are never alone….
Meaning they can require loyalty and have that met.
He must be correct because me and @EyeBRollin have completely different viewpoints. I date women with high status careers, and they don't have time to be out on the street searching for a new drake every week.There's a chance that @BeExcellent can be correct here. The argument she makes is that truly high value women won't share a man and that they'll be high value enough to get an alpha. That argument makes sense, but the big unknown is longevity.
No, they don't. Additionally, I have seen examples of Millennial women with good careers who are socially inept. While their social ineptitude would not keep them from getting laid, their social ineptitude could prevent them from getting longer term, committed relationships.He must be correct because me and @EyeBRollin have completely different viewpoints. I date women with high status careers, and they don't have time to be out on the street searching for a new drake every week.
High status career women are the most delusional broads on the market.He must be correct because me and @EyeBRollin have completely different viewpoints. I date women with high status careers, and they don't have time to be out on the street searching for a new drake every week.