Meeting up with a lady... have a problem

[Dodgeball]

This lady who have been talking to for awhile now, my friends, friend really likes me, gets on well with me through phone... we havent met but she wants to meet tommorow, problem is... ive sworn to lose wieght, improve my looks and my games a little slacky as im still learning, do you think its a good idea, i mean im not being insecure but im overwieght and you know this generation is all about looks etc.

Do you think i should improve me first before meeting her?

 

[flexion_]

Well losing weight isn't going to happen in a day, week or month for that matter. I'd just go for it with what you got now.

Waiting 6 months won't solve anything.

 

[Dodgeball]

i know man but women come and go right, just wondering if i should focus on my goal of improving myself before going for the game

 

[blowme]

if you got game, then she wont care as much about your extra wight. Go out with her.

And then start your weight loss right NOW. If she works out or not whatever, cause your on the way to improvment with or without her

 

[SamePendo]

Hmmmmmm.... let me think. hmmmmmm

How about working on your self esteem?!