"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Meeting up with a lady... have a problem

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This lady who have been talking to for awhile now, my friends, friend really likes me, gets on well with me through phone... we havent met but she wants to meet tommorow, problem is... ive sworn to lose wieght, improve my looks and my games a little slacky as im still learning, do you think its a good idea, i mean im not being insecure but im overwieght and you know this generation is all about looks etc.

Do you think i should improve me first before meeting her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well losing weight isn't going to happen in a day, week or month for that matter. I'd just go for it with what you got now.

Waiting 6 months won't solve anything.
 
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i know man but women come and go right, just wondering if i should focus on my goal of improving myself before going for the game
 
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if you got game, then she wont care as much about your extra wight. Go out with her.

And then start your weight loss right NOW. If she works out or not whatever, cause your on the way to improvment with or without her
 
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Hmmmmmm.... let me think. hmmmmmm

How about working on your self esteem?! :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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