"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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meeting the parents of your younger girlfriend

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My girlfriend of 20 years old doesn't really know my age (32), becuase i've always give her a ****y funny comment when she asks. I will be meeting her parents for the first time on thanxgiving. I'm sure they will ask? any suggestions. C/f , truth, white lie .....???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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1. use better english

2. you're 32, why are you fukkin playing dumass teenager games. but then again maybe that's why you're dating a 20 year old, cause you're immature.

3. go to high school forum, come back to dj discussion in about 3 months - something most noobs should do.
 
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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk

2. you're 32, why are you fukkin playing dumass teenager games. but then again maybe that's why you're dating a 20 year old, cause you're immature.
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Are you saying that dating younger girls is wrong? If I had to date girls my own age throughout my life I would kill myself. I'm 24 now and I plan on dating 20-year olds for a loong time!I don't see anything wrong in that. Age doesn't matter. It's just numbers...

Oh and they're hotter when they are 17-22 in case you didn't notice :D
 
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I have lost 2 relationships similar to yours when I told them the truth at the begining. At first the girls say it doesn't bother them but when their friends and family finds out, it leads to problems and girls value the opinions of their female friends more than anything. If they think you are too old for her, you are done. So if you want to keep her, go with the white lie and say you're 24. But realize that one day she will find out. So it is always good to reveal your true age to her voluntarily at the right time. Usually the best time to tell her the truth is when your relationship is mature and she tells you she loves you. When a girl is fill with love, she'll forgive you but it's important that the truth comes from you and not another source.

That's how I would handle the situation. But I have to say I don't condemn the honest approach, it is just more risky. It's your call.
 
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Go up to her dad and say "Hey Jack, we still on for that game tomorrow? By the way, the boss wants to see you, must be that Johnson account."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Swoop
I have lost 2 relationships similar to yours when I told them the truth at the begining. At first the girls say it doesn't bother them but when their friends and family finds out, it leads to problems and girls value the opinions of their female friends more than anything. If they think you are too old for her, you are done. So if you want to keep her, go with the white lie and say you're 24. But realize that one day she will find out. So it is always good to reveal your true age to her voluntarily at the right time. Usually the best time to tell her the truth is when your relationship is mature and she tells you she loves you. When a girl is fill with love, she'll forgive you but it's important that the truth comes from you and not another source.

That's how I would handle the situation. But I have to say I don't condemn the honest approach, it is just more risky. It's your call.
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Been here, but I was younger that I said, he's right, once she loves you, she will forgive you, its not a deal breaker. Its a small lie, only thing is you will look like an idiot to her parents later if you lie. If your serious about her, don't lie to them, use c&f to avoid it if you can.
 
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