"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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meeting the parents of your younger girlfriend

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My girlfriend of 20 years old doesn't really know my age (32), becuase i've always give her a ****y funny comment when she asks. I will be meeting her parents for the first time on thanxgiving. I'm sure they will ask? any suggestions. C/f , truth, white lie .....???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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1. use better english

2. you're 32, why are you fukkin playing dumass teenager games. but then again maybe that's why you're dating a 20 year old, cause you're immature.

3. go to high school forum, come back to dj discussion in about 3 months - something most noobs should do.
 
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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk

2. you're 32, why are you fukkin playing dumass teenager games. but then again maybe that's why you're dating a 20 year old, cause you're immature.
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Are you saying that dating younger girls is wrong? If I had to date girls my own age throughout my life I would kill myself. I'm 24 now and I plan on dating 20-year olds for a loong time!I don't see anything wrong in that. Age doesn't matter. It's just numbers...

Oh and they're hotter when they are 17-22 in case you didn't notice :D
 
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I have lost 2 relationships similar to yours when I told them the truth at the begining. At first the girls say it doesn't bother them but when their friends and family finds out, it leads to problems and girls value the opinions of their female friends more than anything. If they think you are too old for her, you are done. So if you want to keep her, go with the white lie and say you're 24. But realize that one day she will find out. So it is always good to reveal your true age to her voluntarily at the right time. Usually the best time to tell her the truth is when your relationship is mature and she tells you she loves you. When a girl is fill with love, she'll forgive you but it's important that the truth comes from you and not another source.

That's how I would handle the situation. But I have to say I don't condemn the honest approach, it is just more risky. It's your call.
 
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Go up to her dad and say "Hey Jack, we still on for that game tomorrow? By the way, the boss wants to see you, must be that Johnson account."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Swoop
I have lost 2 relationships similar to yours when I told them the truth at the begining. At first the girls say it doesn't bother them but when their friends and family finds out, it leads to problems and girls value the opinions of their female friends more than anything. If they think you are too old for her, you are done. So if you want to keep her, go with the white lie and say you're 24. But realize that one day she will find out. So it is always good to reveal your true age to her voluntarily at the right time. Usually the best time to tell her the truth is when your relationship is mature and she tells you she loves you. When a girl is fill with love, she'll forgive you but it's important that the truth comes from you and not another source.

That's how I would handle the situation. But I have to say I don't condemn the honest approach, it is just more risky. It's your call.
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Been here, but I was younger that I said, he's right, once she loves you, she will forgive you, its not a deal breaker. Its a small lie, only thing is you will look like an idiot to her parents later if you lie. If your serious about her, don't lie to them, use c&f to avoid it if you can.
 
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