"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Meeting someone for a relationship really is insanely difficult

bigdave17

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You have a very small window of ages that you can really be interested in - you want someone a little younger than you but you can't go below 23 because college chicks have no idea what the hell they want and are in a totally different stage of life so basically you have to pursue women in like a 4 or 5 year age range (23-28 for me)
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Finding a girl who is cute and in nice shape/into fitness
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Finding a girl who has a decent job and is decent with finances/is mature/responsible
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Finding a girl who has a good personality and is intelligent/fun to talk to
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Finding a girl who is genuinely a good person and has a good heart
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Ideally want someone who has as much in common with you as possible
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No kids, not a smoker, not a big drinker
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They have to be single/looking to meet someone.
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Be in a situation where I can approach/ask them out in a natural way
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Be into me



So how the hell do most guys do it? Am I just much much pickier than most men are?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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You have a very small window of ages that you can really be interested in - you want someone a little younger than you but you can't go below 23 because college chicks have no idea what the hell they want and are in a totally different stage of life so basically you have to pursue women in like a 4 or 5 year age range (23-28 for me)
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Finding a girl who is cute and in nice shape/into fitness
+
Finding a girl who has a decent job and is decent with finances/is mature/responsible
+
Finding a girl who has a good personality and is intelligent/fun to talk to
+
Finding a girl who is genuinely a good person and has a good heart
+
Ideally want someone who has as much in common with you as possible
+
No kids, not a smoker, not a big drinker
+
They have to be single/looking to meet someone.
+
Be in a situation where I can approach/ask them out in a natural way
+
Be into me



So how the hell do most guys do it? Am I just much much pickier than most men are?
You ain't doing it right kuz!

For starters, you believe in monogamy.



In the west, bishs be pin balling off the D if aesthetic, good looking, playboy, bad boy etc. When the milks gone bad, when she hits the wall, and she has squandered her youth, its baby rabies and good girl shtick time. Look no further then the cemetery of men destroyed in divorce/family court.

Why Women File 80 Percent of Divorces:
Posted on January 20, 2016

According to the National Center for Health Statistics, about 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce, and about 80 percent of the divorces are initiated by women. That 50 percent is often quoted and it is probably on the high side, but it is illuminating that 80 percent of the divorces are filed by the wife.
You get a short window with a woman on top form Sexual Market Value. Usually, 18-23.

Most men are beta, are low test, stop lifting the sec they get laid, stop seeing their boys, get ostracized from men, and follow the beaten path of the female agenda.



Look, if you haven't got options, if you aren't got game, and picking up women. If you haven't got options, you need to get yourself sorted out first because scarcity doesn't get a woman wet. Being the sort of man who urinates from the seat position doesn't get a woman moist.

The sound of most men's piss hitting the porcelain sounds feminine.



IMHO, marriage and trad dating is DEAD. Footing the bills, paying for dinners, and she is out getting her **** pushed in then swallowing some dude's proteins.



TS, step your game up. Every bish is practice. New girls are turning 18/19/20/21 everyday.

I'm 30 son. The last throater I got, chick age 21/22. COME @ ME BRO!
 

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You have a very small window of ages that you can really be interested in - you want someone a little younger than you but you can't go below 23 because college chicks have no idea what the hell they want and are in a totally different stage of life so basically you have to pursue women in like a 4 or 5 year age range (23-28 for me)
+
Finding a girl who is cute and in nice shape/into fitness
+
Finding a girl who has a decent job and is decent with finances/is mature/responsible
+
Finding a girl who has a good personality and is intelligent/fun to talk to
+
Finding a girl who is genuinely a good person and has a good heart
+
Ideally want someone who has as much in common with you as possible
+
No kids, not a smoker, not a big drinker
+
They have to be single/looking to meet someone.
+
Be in a situation where I can approach/ask them out in a natural way
+
Be into me



So how the hell do most guys do it? Am I just much much pickier than most men are?

Why don't you just go to Las Vagas and get married?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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