"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You have a very small window of ages that you can really be interested in - you want someone a little younger than you but you can't go below 23 because college chicks have no idea what the hell they want and are in a totally different stage of life so basically you have to pursue women in like a 4 or 5 year age range (23-28 for me)
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Finding a girl who is cute and in nice shape/into fitness
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Finding a girl who has a decent job and is decent with finances/is mature/responsible
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Finding a girl who has a good personality and is intelligent/fun to talk to
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Finding a girl who is genuinely a good person and has a good heart
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Ideally want someone who has as much in common with you as possible
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No kids, not a smoker, not a big drinker
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They have to be single/looking to meet someone.
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Be in a situation where I can approach/ask them out in a natural way
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Be into me



So how the hell do most guys do it? Am I just much much pickier than most men are?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You have a very small window of ages that you can really be interested in - you want someone a little younger than you but you can't go below 23 because college chicks have no idea what the hell they want and are in a totally different stage of life so basically you have to pursue women in like a 4 or 5 year age range (23-28 for me)
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Finding a girl who is cute and in nice shape/into fitness
+
Finding a girl who has a decent job and is decent with finances/is mature/responsible
+
Finding a girl who has a good personality and is intelligent/fun to talk to
+
Finding a girl who is genuinely a good person and has a good heart
+
Ideally want someone who has as much in common with you as possible
+
No kids, not a smoker, not a big drinker
+
They have to be single/looking to meet someone.
+
Be in a situation where I can approach/ask them out in a natural way
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Be into me



So how the hell do most guys do it? Am I just much much pickier than most men are?
You ain't doing it right kuz!

For starters, you believe in monogamy.



In the west, bishs be pin balling off the D if aesthetic, good looking, playboy, bad boy etc. When the milks gone bad, when she hits the wall, and she has squandered her youth, its baby rabies and good girl shtick time. Look no further then the cemetery of men destroyed in divorce/family court.

Why Women File 80 Percent of Divorces:
Posted on January 20, 2016

According to the National Center for Health Statistics, about 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce, and about 80 percent of the divorces are initiated by women. That 50 percent is often quoted and it is probably on the high side, but it is illuminating that 80 percent of the divorces are filed by the wife.
You get a short window with a woman on top form Sexual Market Value. Usually, 18-23.

Most men are beta, are low test, stop lifting the sec they get laid, stop seeing their boys, get ostracized from men, and follow the beaten path of the female agenda.



Look, if you haven't got options, if you aren't got game, and picking up women. If you haven't got options, you need to get yourself sorted out first because scarcity doesn't get a woman wet. Being the sort of man who urinates from the seat position doesn't get a woman moist.

The sound of most men's piss hitting the porcelain sounds feminine.



IMHO, marriage and trad dating is DEAD. Footing the bills, paying for dinners, and she is out getting her **** pushed in then swallowing some dude's proteins.



TS, step your game up. Every bish is practice. New girls are turning 18/19/20/21 everyday.

I'm 30 son. The last throater I got, chick age 21/22. COME @ ME BRO!
 

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You have a very small window of ages that you can really be interested in - you want someone a little younger than you but you can't go below 23 because college chicks have no idea what the hell they want and are in a totally different stage of life so basically you have to pursue women in like a 4 or 5 year age range (23-28 for me)
+
Finding a girl who is cute and in nice shape/into fitness
+
Finding a girl who has a decent job and is decent with finances/is mature/responsible
+
Finding a girl who has a good personality and is intelligent/fun to talk to
+
Finding a girl who is genuinely a good person and has a good heart
+
Ideally want someone who has as much in common with you as possible
+
No kids, not a smoker, not a big drinker
+
They have to be single/looking to meet someone.
+
Be in a situation where I can approach/ask them out in a natural way
+
Be into me



So how the hell do most guys do it? Am I just much much pickier than most men are?

Why don't you just go to Las Vagas and get married?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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