"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Meeting Quality Women..

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Hey, I am sort of new here.. I used to be on here a few years back, mainly looking for ways to get into women's pants and get out of the "friend zone"..

But anyway, I will get to the point. I am 24 1/2, have a good job, and am a relatively good looking guy who is in awesome shape. I have no problem meeting women to just mess with, but have a hard time meeting a good woman.

Where are some places to meet decent women? I am not into picking up women at Bars or Clubs. So where are some good places to meet attractive women in the 23-25 year range who are looking for a Serious Relationship?

Thanks,
Doc
 

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mothballs

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Well that depends on what a quality woman is exactly to you. But, I'm assuming you're looking for a classy intelligent woman if you don't define bar hoppers as quality. The best place quite frankly would be at get togethers with your friends... meet friends of friends because they're most likely to have similar interests. If someone you know actually has good taste in women for you and has your best interest in mind... it might be worth entertaining that date they want to set up with the "cute" friend
 

STR8UP

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SleepyRangerMedic82D said:
I have no problem meeting women to just mess with, but have a hard time meeting a good woman.
Ever stopped to consider the fact that this might be because the number of "dateable" (notice how I changed "quality" to "dateable"?) women out there is very small?

There is no such thing as "where to go to meet quality women". There's no "QualityChickMart". Anyone who tells you otherwise is speaking matrix talk.
 

Jeremymichael

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That is one of my greatest problems, meeting decent dateable women. I think sometimes work is a good place were you have say a shared kitchen etc.. Bars are pretty hardwork. What frustrates me is I see all these lovely couples together and I wonder how the man did it?. I think many meet at University or work.
 
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Yeah I definitely think "Dateable" is more right on than "Quality"..

I just hate wasting my time when I actually get free time on dates. Like I said, finding chicks to just hook up with isn't that hard. But finding a Dateable woman is a bit challenging. In the end, I am just lazy when it comes to finding a steady GF.. Have been in 3 serious relationships in the past, but honestly, not really into the "chase" and having to play the game..

But thanks for the advice and info.. Thanks much
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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