"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Meeting Quality Women..

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Hey, I am sort of new here.. I used to be on here a few years back, mainly looking for ways to get into women's pants and get out of the "friend zone"..

But anyway, I will get to the point. I am 24 1/2, have a good job, and am a relatively good looking guy who is in awesome shape. I have no problem meeting women to just mess with, but have a hard time meeting a good woman.

Where are some places to meet decent women? I am not into picking up women at Bars or Clubs. So where are some good places to meet attractive women in the 23-25 year range who are looking for a Serious Relationship?

Thanks,
Doc
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mothballs

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Well that depends on what a quality woman is exactly to you. But, I'm assuming you're looking for a classy intelligent woman if you don't define bar hoppers as quality. The best place quite frankly would be at get togethers with your friends... meet friends of friends because they're most likely to have similar interests. If someone you know actually has good taste in women for you and has your best interest in mind... it might be worth entertaining that date they want to set up with the "cute" friend
 

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SleepyRangerMedic82D said:
I have no problem meeting women to just mess with, but have a hard time meeting a good woman.
Ever stopped to consider the fact that this might be because the number of "dateable" (notice how I changed "quality" to "dateable"?) women out there is very small?

There is no such thing as "where to go to meet quality women". There's no "QualityChickMart". Anyone who tells you otherwise is speaking matrix talk.
 

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That is one of my greatest problems, meeting decent dateable women. I think sometimes work is a good place were you have say a shared kitchen etc.. Bars are pretty hardwork. What frustrates me is I see all these lovely couples together and I wonder how the man did it?. I think many meet at University or work.
 
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Yeah I definitely think "Dateable" is more right on than "Quality"..

I just hate wasting my time when I actually get free time on dates. Like I said, finding chicks to just hook up with isn't that hard. But finding a Dateable woman is a bit challenging. In the end, I am just lazy when it comes to finding a steady GF.. Have been in 3 serious relationships in the past, but honestly, not really into the "chase" and having to play the game..

But thanks for the advice and info.. Thanks much
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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