"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Meeting Other DJ's in your area

Would you meet other DJ's in your area?

  • Yes! I think its a great way to sharpen your skills

    Votes: 9 64.3%
  • No way, its a little awkward meeting other guys off the net.

    Votes: 2 14.3%
  • Undecided

    Votes: 3 21.4%

  • Total voters
    14

SLIKKER_THAN_AVG

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Just a curiosity..How many of you guys would actually meet other DJ's in your area whether it is just to hang out or actually use each others as wings and participate in Group PU's or whatever.


Personally, i dont think i would..no offense to any people on here who DO meet others IRL, but id actually find it awkward..but her whatever its just my opinion.

So..who would or who wouldnt?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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REDblueOI

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Buffalo Ney York baby!
Ahem, buffalo?
 

Eternal

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Did that. Very cool.
 

SLIKKER_THAN_AVG

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Hey Crazykid, What did you guys do?

Personally i would find it hard to have wings who i just met.
 
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pressing the blue button...bump!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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