"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Meeting Other DJ's in your area

Would you meet other DJ's in your area?

  • Yes! I think its a great way to sharpen your skills

    Votes: 9 64.3%
  • No way, its a little awkward meeting other guys off the net.

    Votes: 2 14.3%
  • Undecided

    Votes: 3 21.4%

  • Total voters
    14

SLIKKER_THAN_AVG

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Just a curiosity..How many of you guys would actually meet other DJ's in your area whether it is just to hang out or actually use each others as wings and participate in Group PU's or whatever.


Personally, i dont think i would..no offense to any people on here who DO meet others IRL, but id actually find it awkward..but her whatever its just my opinion.

So..who would or who wouldnt?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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REDblueOI

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Buffalo Ney York baby!
Ahem, buffalo?
 

Eternal

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Did that. Very cool.
 

SLIKKER_THAN_AVG

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Hey Crazykid, What did you guys do?

Personally i would find it hard to have wings who i just met.
 
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pressing the blue button...bump!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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