"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Meeting new women and being flirty while in a relationship.

2Rocky

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Not necessarily dread game, but being sure you are still being attractive while in a relationship. Where is the balance point in how you deal with other women while in a relationship?

It's a lot easier to act as if IDGAF, because you have a steady woman and you don't have to worry about if this particular woman doesn't LIKE you.

Not that you are approaching, but your introduction to these other women is all indirect.

Your eye contact, conversation skills, and nonverbal communication skills still need practice.

You do have a little bit of dread game when women know you. Especially when out with your SO.

In the event that the relationship ends, you aren't without female acquaintances. I was amazed at the interest I got during my divorce from women I'd met while married.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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corrector

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You cant control how or when some woman is going to be interested in you. If she very interested then you will have to cheat to maintain her temperature otherwise she can move off to another guy. Think woman have too many options to wait around for you and you dont sound like a chad or you wouldnt be writing a thread like that. Probably will just end up wrecking your current thing.
 

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I am in a one sided open relationship. I see other people but my wife doesn't. I primarily do MFM with swinger couples since the open relationship thing is more accepted with that group.

I have other single women who I have hit up and know I am available but most single women don't want involved with an attached guy. My wife knows everything and I have noticed since starting an open relationship she works out more and is all about keeping me happy.

Women behave better when they have to compete for your time and attention.

This is however a balancing act. I can't just run off and bang other girls every weekend. It's just an occasional thing. You do have to keep your main happy and knowing she's #1.

Having an attractive wife does give you power and social proof. If I hit a woman up and explain my situation I have no problem never talking to her ever again if she shows low interest. I just go home and take my cute wife out and post it all over instagram for the other girl to see. Jealous if powerful
 
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