Meeting my girl tomorrow

[tpntch]

Well this is basically a girl I met a at a family party about 2 years ago, we have kept in touch recently for about the last 6 months, she told me she loved me, we got past through all that....


Now the problem is i'm seeing her tomorrow so it is kind of akward because normally i would makeout with a girl I have seen for 6 months.


I am super nervous as of now and I can tell she is too, Any tips!!!!! I am picking her up from school,



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[tpntch]

I would also like to mention that this girl intimidates me (her looks) and she feels the same way about me.



We are so both ****ing nervous, I hope I don't go there and all I get is a lousy hug




Any tips??

 

[tpntch]

noones gonna show me some love and help out!

 

[NRM]

Haha, I can tell it's gonna be awkward for you tomorrow and there won't be a way around it.

UNLESS, you show her you're a super cool fun guy. But usually if a relationship starts out the way you described... it isn't going to be very fun unless you start off from scratch again.

Family party eh... tell me she's not part of it...

 

[tpntch]

Originally posted by NRM
Haha, I can tell it's gonna be awkward for you tomorrow and there won't be a way around it.

UNLESS, you show her you're a super cool fun guy. But usually if a relationship starts out the way you described... it isn't going to be very fun unless you start off from scratch again.

Family party eh... tell me she's not part of it...

I am gonna come out really funny but I am going to make sure i don't come on too strong



She is not related to me

 

[blinkwatt]

make sure you make her feel comfortable and establish kino with her.

 

[tpntch]

So should I go as far as makin out with her cuz normally if i was dating a girl for 6 months i would be makin out with them...

 

[tpntch]

Damn my heart beats faster just thinking about it

 

[Centaurion]

Dude, my best advice would be to have a few shots of vodka or whiskey just before hand. It will calm your nerve.

Thats what I usually did back in the days when I was scared ****less meeting new girls.

 

[NRM]

Haha, you are gonna be so lost and not funny if you're heart is beating fast just thinking about it. What you have to do is relax and not care about her anymore. Remember that she's just a girl and you can move on. If you've just been keeping in touch and fell in love somehow. She's probably just as desperate as you. Or she's just bored. Who knows.

I dunno if you can get away with making out. You've left out so many details, no one can help you there.

 

[LikRetsam]

Originally posted by NRM
Family party eh... tell me she's not part of it...

Hahahaha.

Hey, OP, cool it. Don't go in with high expectations. You haven't seen her in 6 months so don't jump the gun. Make sure she is still worth it. Have some fun, lighten up. It's not about getting horny, it's about enjoying yourself.

 

[Anomalous]

YOUR GOAL is not to make out with her, that will make you nervous and put a lot of pressure on you. YOUR GOAL is to have FUN and do the normal DJ stuff. Everything should fall down hill from there, once your having fun and your confortable, you can try and make out, finger, bj, etc.

Good luck, your going to need it.

Just kinding
let us know how it turns out.

 

[tpntch]

Everything went so ****ing smooth, we were both nervous as hell but those last 15 minutes we both loosened up, held hands the whole way and made out for about 2 minutes and we departed

 

[tpntch]

Basically I just threw away my shyness and nervousness and became kind of gutsy



We were having the time of our lives!

 

[tpntch]

Just a little confidence for anyone else who is in my situation

 

[tpntch]

I am meeting her again friday with 2 other couples, we're all goin to the movies



Any tips?