"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Meeting her friends before having sex with her? Is it OK?

devilkingx2

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ubercat

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Meetng the friends before sex simply = a chance for the panel to reject you. Not to mention that some of those so called friends will be male orbiters looking to c0ck block you. I had this problem with a hot girls housemates once. Fortunately because I'm such a cheerful man***** it was too late for the c0ck block. The relationship didn't work out partly because of all the bloody orbiters but at least I had fun with the puss and it was quite something to behold.
 

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Depends on how old you are? There's so many variables. But 4 weeks or 4 dates is too early to hang with her chick friends. Like whomever said, she's gonna try and seek approval of friends and that's the worst because they have the final say. She can jettison you asap before any sex, I'd pass and reschedule. Tell her something came up and you can't go. If she's understanding, reschedule. If she turns into a rage monster, bail immediately


Here's when you know you've got her. At my girls house and I absolutely hate her roommate. She tells me her latest story and I flat out tell her she's crazy. She's fights me awhile, and I show her the evidence and she agrees. She says she needs to get a new apartment because she's super annoying and blah blah.
 
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