"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Meeting her friends before having sex with her? Is it OK?

devilkingx2

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ubercat

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Meetng the friends before sex simply = a chance for the panel to reject you. Not to mention that some of those so called friends will be male orbiters looking to c0ck block you. I had this problem with a hot girls housemates once. Fortunately because I'm such a cheerful man***** it was too late for the c0ck block. The relationship didn't work out partly because of all the bloody orbiters but at least I had fun with the puss and it was quite something to behold.
 

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Depends on how old you are? There's so many variables. But 4 weeks or 4 dates is too early to hang with her chick friends. Like whomever said, she's gonna try and seek approval of friends and that's the worst because they have the final say. She can jettison you asap before any sex, I'd pass and reschedule. Tell her something came up and you can't go. If she's understanding, reschedule. If she turns into a rage monster, bail immediately


Here's when you know you've got her. At my girls house and I absolutely hate her roommate. She tells me her latest story and I flat out tell her she's crazy. She's fights me awhile, and I show her the evidence and she agrees. She says she needs to get a new apartment because she's super annoying and blah blah.
 
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