LinkinParkROX
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Has anyone thought about this? It could be pretty useful. I wonder what to say when you add someone though.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Meeting girls on Facebook?
- Thread starter LinkinParkROX
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Unbridled_Phoenix
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What does your gut tell you? If you were a hot chick on Facebook getting 1200 messages/friend requests from stupid guys, would you see one and say, "Wow, this guy's so awesome, the way he had the confidence to approach me on a website makes me tingle down below"?
I think women are creeped out by random guys on the internet
I think women are creeped out by random guys on the internet
JCballin88
Senior Don Juan
I personally limit Facebook interactions to just people that I know. Some sites are more conducive to random people adding each other for fun, but on Facebook, I think that comes across as creepy (like the above poster said.)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Never hooked up w a girl who didnt facebook me first. But if you get a friend request or a wall post, don't underestimate the interest if its there!
Lol i did this and a girl replied back with "Borrow me?" What have you replied to with that?omega05 said:try this line as i have gotten results both on myspace and facebook
"Hey cutie. Can I borrow you? I'll give you back. Promise."
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
a very good looking friend of mine got picked up by some big college football player via facebook. he messaged her saying "i swear i know you from somewhere" (haha she said there is absolutely no way that he knew her, so its all bs). but either way - he got her talking to him and thats all you really need
im sure the flake % is high, and approaching in field will help you grow as a DJ much more, but i have no doubt it is possible.
im sure the flake % is high, and approaching in field will help you grow as a DJ much more, but i have no doubt it is possible.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Facebook has an online dating ap. called AreYouInterested. It works similar to hot or not. You post your photo and women can click yes or no if they like you. If they click yes you can then send them a friends request.
thedude4242
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I dont like using facebook for that kind of stuff. maybe use facebook to advertise yourself as long as you dont get to carried away with the pics.
Deadly_Ripped
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None of what you come up with on a social networking site will be worth keeping. Social fun hot people like other social fun people, and the internet is not social or fun in the same sense.