"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Meeting girls on Facebook?

LinkinParkROX

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Has anyone thought about this? It could be pretty useful. I wonder what to say when you add someone though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jacob

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I just use a simple "Hi mind if I add you?"
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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What does your gut tell you? If you were a hot chick on Facebook getting 1200 messages/friend requests from stupid guys, would you see one and say, "Wow, this guy's so awesome, the way he had the confidence to approach me on a website makes me tingle down below"?

I think women are creeped out by random guys on the internet
 

JCballin88

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I personally limit Facebook interactions to just people that I know. Some sites are more conducive to random people adding each other for fun, but on Facebook, I think that comes across as creepy (like the above poster said.)
 

Leporello

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As I've said before...

If it;s just totally random it's probably no good. If you've just moved to a new city/school/company than it can be a pretty good way to meet people and start the social life going.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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omega05

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try this line as i have gotten results both on myspace and facebook

"Hey cutie. Can I borrow you? I'll give you back. Promise. :)"
 

The Inside Man

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Never hooked up w a girl who didnt facebook me first. But if you get a friend request or a wall post, don't underestimate the interest if its there!
 

DannyM

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omega05 said:
try this line as i have gotten results both on myspace and facebook

"Hey cutie. Can I borrow you? I'll give you back. Promise. :)"
Lol i did this and a girl replied back with "Borrow me?" What have you replied to with that?
 

omega05

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DannyM said:
Lol i did this and a girl replied back with "Borrow me?" What have you replied to with that?
"yes borrow you for some laughs and giggles"
or
" yes which means you can return yourself at any time"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thyme

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a very good looking friend of mine got picked up by some big college football player via facebook. he messaged her saying "i swear i know you from somewhere" (haha she said there is absolutely no way that he knew her, so its all bs). but either way - he got her talking to him and thats all you really need

im sure the flake % is high, and approaching in field will help you grow as a DJ much more, but i have no doubt it is possible.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Facebook has an online dating ap. called AreYouInterested. It works similar to hot or not. You post your photo and women can click yes or no if they like you. If they click yes you can then send them a friends request.
 

thedude4242

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I dont like using facebook for that kind of stuff. maybe use facebook to advertise yourself as long as you dont get to carried away with the pics.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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None of what you come up with on a social networking site will be worth keeping. Social fun hot people like other social fun people, and the internet is not social or fun in the same sense.
 
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