Okay, tomorrow the girl I'm currently interested in is visiting me at work...keep in mind I've never met her, just have seen pics. She's my friend's friend and we've just been chatting online. Anyway, kind of a silly question but should I hug / kiss on the cheek, just hug, or what. I don't want it to seem akward. She's really friendly so she'll probably hug me, but idk.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Meeting Girl for the First Time
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