"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Meeting Girl for the First Time

jlazz

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Okay, tomorrow the girl I'm currently interested in is visiting me at work...keep in mind I've never met her, just have seen pics. She's my friend's friend and we've just been chatting online. Anyway, kind of a silly question but should I hug / kiss on the cheek, just hug, or what. I don't want it to seem akward. She's really friendly so she'll probably hug me, but idk.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MrS

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Any touch is good, if you're friendly give her a kiss on the cheek and a half hug, that's always good i find.
Your call! Depend show 'close' you are.
 

jlazz

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Thanks...well she's always tellin me how hot I am from my pics and all and she invited me to party with her next week, so she's definitely interested. We've talked about some personal stuff so we're sorta comfortable...but the problem is I've never met her..so it'll be kind of akward.
 

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Well...You certainly don't know what to expect...since you only know so much about this woman is a picture you don't know how old...and online dating isn't very a good idea...Just trust your friend on this one... A hug should be sufficient :woo:
 

jlazz

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She's one of my friend's friend and my other friend's ex. Ima go with the hug, but yeah she's my age.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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