"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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unconditionalcaring

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This is a very cool site. You all have your act together. I'm just wondering, where are the women (besides the special womens segment)? I mean if you are serious about meeting, dating and attracting just women, you could do so right here with the help of women. All you would have to do would be to include women in your discussion. I have learned so many great things by reading the ideas on this site. Yet I also laugh because being a woman that you guys just don't get (in terms of knowledge by being guys after all), especially when you try to make such DJ typical comments about women, you don't have any women to correct you when you go a wee bit off target *smile*. I don't know, I guess I am just in the men's locker-room about women. And if you give me the fit-it-into-your-personality line, well, I am a human being first just like all the rest of you and well it makes a difference if people are treated in terms of only their sexual preferences and gender or whether we can all have a look at your ideas and genuinely feel appreciated and included instead of just a don juan species of male sexually ravenous homo sapiens constantly recovering from chumpdom.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i didnt understand any of that.....

just joking :p
 

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Hi

Hi DJsparky, Do you mind if I ask you a few questions? What are the three most important things you want to learn about with these topics? What issues, questions and landmines do you have?
 

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Mainly im here to improve myself and to help others, being a don juan is to be at one with yourself, kind of like finding an inner peace. Sure it's great to get advice along the way and the dj bible comes in handy, but thats only half the battle, you need to get out there and do things yourself, to become one with yourself is to try and give it your best shot.
 
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