“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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unconditionalcaring

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This is a very cool site. You all have your act together. I'm just wondering, where are the women (besides the special womens segment)? I mean if you are serious about meeting, dating and attracting just women, you could do so right here with the help of women. All you would have to do would be to include women in your discussion. I have learned so many great things by reading the ideas on this site. Yet I also laugh because being a woman that you guys just don't get (in terms of knowledge by being guys after all), especially when you try to make such DJ typical comments about women, you don't have any women to correct you when you go a wee bit off target *smile*. I don't know, I guess I am just in the men's locker-room about women. And if you give me the fit-it-into-your-personality line, well, I am a human being first just like all the rest of you and well it makes a difference if people are treated in terms of only their sexual preferences and gender or whether we can all have a look at your ideas and genuinely feel appreciated and included instead of just a don juan species of male sexually ravenous homo sapiens constantly recovering from chumpdom.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i didnt understand any of that.....

just joking :p
 

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Hi

Hi DJsparky, Do you mind if I ask you a few questions? What are the three most important things you want to learn about with these topics? What issues, questions and landmines do you have?
 

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Mainly im here to improve myself and to help others, being a don juan is to be at one with yourself, kind of like finding an inner peace. Sure it's great to get advice along the way and the dj bible comes in handy, but thats only half the battle, you need to get out there and do things yourself, to become one with yourself is to try and give it your best shot.
 
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